Posted: Nov 17, 2007, 3:20 PM CST
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not everyone are cheaters, let your past relationship go, open ur heart and be ready for her to walk in....
for mr ericthall...lol
Thank you blueeyedblonde
I have more than that .
the first relationship (date) i had which i made the lady wait until i was divorced before i would go out with her.
Turns out she had a couple of other boyfriends (lover level) and even came to my home after the 3rd date with all her furniture in my yard and forced herself into my home... had to take my children and live with my mother for a month to get her out
then after 3 years i went to Americansingles met a lady talked a while on the phone.
met her for lunch on a monday we hit it off imeadiatley so i invited her to dinner with me and my daughters at a resteraunt.
she insisted on wedensday that we date only each other since she had a great fondness for me...
even told me when she got back from her vacation at Myrtle beach for the weekend she would like to think we would be working on intimacy in our newfound relationship.
She only wanted me and her to be dating each other and no other dates... i agreed
she left on thursday i spoke with her thursday night then she started texting me and would not call or answer.... broke down in text and told me she was staying with a man she had promised to come and stay with for sex with no strings and asked me to understand she could not break her plans.... Hmmm seems to be a trend
so i wait and make no steps to be anything more than a friend to any lady no matter how attracted i'am to them...
can't do it again at this time plus my ex-wife who doesn't want me does her best to see noone else will have me...(long story) will try anything, she doesn't want me but will not allow any other to have me