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It seem when I mention I have kids that live with me, I loose the freindship. What am I doing wrong?

It would make no difference to me. I never seem to get men who have children contacting me though.

I can only answer for myself, and I would say yes, like the plague.

I guess most of the time the kids live with the woman. So that makes me out of the norm.

arer kids a problem?

I guess wait for the one that will accept you and your kids

I think more men shy away from women with kids, that the other way around!!..............JMO

I only have a couple of years before they fly the coop

I wouldn't shy away because of kids. At my age, you accept the woman-you accept her all.

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest if a man had children at home with him.. (or not at home as the case maybe)..

I suppose it's just the same as SOME men not wanting to be involved with a woman who has children..

People want (and look for) different things.

Awww

My ex husband and I were talking about this same subject a while ago..

He was talking about the fact his (latest) new GF doesn't have children.. and how glad he was about that. I asked him if he would want to be involved with a woman that DID have children, and he said No wayyyyy!..

and that's a man who HAS 3 kids (with me)

It surprised me really.. I would have thought that a man who already had children of his own would be more understanding and excepting of a partner with children.. but nooo... haha

I said.. *Hmm well that's bloody GREAT then isn't it.. that's me buggered!* haha

BUT... It works both ways doesn't it.. I was ALSO just thinking.. I have a female friend whose children live with their dad.

and SHE tells me she doesn't want to be with anyone who had kids either.

(and that's someone WITH 3 too)

I think men with children are awesome. *M*

Thomas.. (I forgot to say lol)

I think it's just the women you have met so far.. we don't all think that way.

Yeaahh *Daddies* yum-yum!

Dunno bro, i don't have any kids, but im sorry you get that from women..

Kids or no kids its all good

I don't have any kids. That I'm aware of I'm still avoided...

That has more to do with the fact you're a Lion's fan Robert