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But that would mean I have strong...check that...REALLY STRONG character. I'm friggin' ready for sainthood.

I agree Pope Robert

I agree


It could be they think you are looking for someone to be a mother to your children.


Same way a man thinks of a woman with kids.

Yeah that's what I think it is sometimes.. one side thinking the other is after a *Parent*..
Mine HAVE a dad.. (as crummy as he is sometimes haha)..

I can parent my own children..


(well.. with a lasso, tazer and a few sheep dogs)

Sure Robert

I had my daughter with me until last year, and didn't run into that problem, but because I had her living with me I was a lot more cautious about who I was willing to talk to, and I had real issues about anyone coming over. This put women off, not the fact that I had kids. It's natural to want to protect your children, well i most people anyway, and I think this can cause you to be a little overly cautious.
I know this is a run on Just be patient when you least expect it the perfect someone will pop up

Yep
I can also.



How are you?

What about the minefield regarding the Mother of the children if the relationship is acrimonious I certainly would have no desire to be involved in a relationship where the kids play each adult off one another

Yeah rub it in why don't you.

I'm very well thanks Mary..
I like your new piccy.. you look great

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Thanks
I like yours

its not you nor your kids that the problem. you've come across the wrong women, theres plenty out there who love kids and it wouldnt be a issue. keep doing what your doing...shes there!

Depends on how old the kids are. My "baby" is 18. Have done the whole thing and not really into doing it again. If they are like 13 and up that is better. But if I met someone who does have younger ones and it worked out then wouldn't be an issue.

I think it is awesome that you have your kids!!!! I have a son myself and you know guys do the same thing too, so it ain't just you...I have had guys interested and then once they spend more time with me then I introduce them to my son and the next thing I know the guy is never heard from again. Just hang in there it isn't you or your kids its the ladies and in my case the guys. The right person will be there

k this seems to be beat to death......but here's my 2 cents

you've met the wrong women......plenty of women would rather be with a man who already has kids

i myself prefer a man who has kids and is done with havin babies.....let's get em grown and go bout our fun

I especially liked the "lasso" touch!

Your not doing anything wrong. I respect a man that has his kids. If the women your talking to cannot except that then you don't need them. Most of us have kids and thats part of the package !!!!

If you lose the friendship then it probably is not you....Not everyone has a true intent on friendship