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I am fine with "backlash". I am a lot of things..honest, caring, loyal, whatever..I can still be an assh*le sometimes LOL...I know that...don't be so sure I was taken wrong. If someone asked me ..what is your ONE good quality....I would say it is that I am still at 42...teachable....It matter little to me whether I LIKE what you have to say to me, I look for what I can learn from.
Well there you have it , somedays you can be an a------ , then what?
do you forget it and move on
do you work on it and try to do better
or do you dwell on it and try to be more of an ass
basically we are all the same a------ sometimes saints other times
how we deal with it is what makes the difference.
we are all imperfect people, sorry if you have been through a rough patch , I think we treat ourselves inside the way we treat others outside . jmo