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I can do that.....promise I can.......

Very kind of you..

Testimonials are awesome! Actually I do know a few people who have met on dating sites and are happily married. Well except for one, but she is hanging on and trying. He showed way later on he has a gambling problem. But needless to say, when people post such great happiness in the forums, it can't be helped to smile. A lot of different view points, and I do respect them all. Yes there is many different kinds of love. I guess I am just referring to (should have stated it better) a love that has no bounderies. Where the two will once share looking at the stars together etc.....

Your silly girl, love ya for it

Real love is walking hand in hand with the one you love and looking back fondly upon all that has gone before. No regrets just the warmth of old souls.

Mark

That is a dream I have as well.. and one day I will make it come true..
yep I will..

O' very true, some of my patients have said that. And when I look at them and watch their eyes........you see a love with no regrets.

Real love is also the little things one does to bring a smile to the special person in their life just because.. the reaching out of your hand to softly touch her face, saying how wonderful she is.. appreciating her for who she is... and much more.. and doing it all just because you can..

Thank You~Dido

My tea's gone cold, I'm wondering why
I got out of bed at all
The morning rain clouds up my window
and I can't see at all
And even if I could it'd all be grey,
but your picture on my wall
It reminds me that it's not so bad,
it's not so bad

I drank too much last night, got bills to pay,
my head just feels in pain
I missed the bus and there'll be hell today,
I'm late for work again
And even if I'm there, they'll all imply
that I might not last the day
And then you call me and it's not so bad,
it's not so bad and

I want to thank you
for giving me the best day of my life
Oh just to be with you
is having the best day of my life

Push the door, I'm home at last
and I'm soaking through and through
Then you hand me a towel
and all I see is you
And even if my house falls down,
I wouldn't have a clue
Because you're near me and

I want to thank you
for giving me the best day of my life
Oh just to be with you
is having the best day of my life

Mark

I would like to share something,

One day when I was taking a break from hospice work, I was waitressing. There was a table for four people. Two elderly people, their son and his wife. Something told me by the mannerism of the daughter in law something wasn't quite right, she looked overwhelmed, agitated impatient with her inlaws. Mind ya, they had to have been in their upper 80's or early 90's of age. I went over to take their order, took the young couples first for they were ready, I looked at the mother and saw a hospital bracelet on her. She couldn't talk well, so I got on my knee and finished with the order. She was confused and I put my hand on hers and said it was okay and to take her time. Daughter in law is handing out the looks at me hahaha. When I was taking their order on my knee, the husband had his week, but loving arm around his wife. Then I realized she didn't know or recognize the people she was with. I started tearing up, because I could see her husband was sad, hurting of course........most importantly this love in his eyes floored me. His eyes showed fondness, gentleness, patience to the one he had married at 18 years of age. (he told me). I dropped the order off, stood off aways, where they couldn't see me, and just watched the two. Mesmerized by what I was witnessing. It was beautiful!!!! He showed protectiveness over her fears. And at times, she knew visually who he was, but even when she didn't her spirit did. Her eyes were giving back love, trust, and warmth I can't explain. Needless to say, I walked over to another waitress to show her what I was seeing........she couldn't see it. And then I started bawling like a child. It touched my heart so deeply!!!. I will never and I mean never forget that moment. I will never forget the eye exchange between the two of them. Thanks for listening.

That is so beautiful, wise and true

Only through the eyes of Wisdom are we ever granted such a lovely vision. You are truly blessed to have witnessed this scene, and to allow it to touch your heart.

Mark

I hope I worded it right to my emotions that people could feel what I felt. Did you feel it Mark?

Right in the old breadbasket you little UFC'er ya! Brought tears to my eyes too (or maybe it was that nasty right hook...hmmm) I'll let you know when the swelling in my eye settles and I can see clearly enough to type k?

Mark

ROFLMAO...............watch it or I will attack with my pinchy toes

And you told me that you couldn't express what you felt. Well if you defined that emotion more clearly I would have shorted out my computer with the flood of tears, so I guess I am grateful that you feel that you lack some means to epistolize your emotions. You are a natural sweetheart and always say what you mean.

Mark

Yeah promises promises....

Mark

Fishing....your story was soooo beautiful!! My mother ended up not recognizing her family as well but there were times when we would see it in her eyes... I honestly believe that deep in thier souls they know and they remember and they recognize...but the disease keeps them from being able to let us know... it is sad and very hard on the family...God bless you for having a compassionate soul!!

When my mother became sick I saw the same thing from my father.. eventually she got to the point that she couldn't get out of bed,and he had to bath her feed her dress her and so on.. he took her to all of her doctor appointments and he did this all because of his deep love and devotion for my mother.. never once did I ever see him give up.. he refused to put her in a nursing home, because he just couldn't bear to be without her..

I helped as much as I could and tried to be there as much as possible.. but my father stuck by my mothers side all the way up until we watched her die in the hospital.. both of my sisters were horrable with the way they treated my father the day my mom died and I finally had enough of what they were saying and told them both to shut up or I would physically throw them both out of the hospital...

I couldn't believe they could be so horrible as my mother was living her last few minutes.. I can barely type this.. I saw my father cry for the first time and watched him break down.. and I began to cry myself.. I did have to pull myself together though because I had to drive everyone.. but the love and devotion my father had for my mother was something to behold

And when I find that special someone I want to be just like him when it comes to that..

Thank you for taking the time to read the long post. I'm sorry to hear about your mother. Their soul/spirit do remember.......I saw that. And thank you for the nice compliment.

Thanks sweety,

Spanky