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I am against it...I feel there are other options..Adoption is a good one...There are so many woman out there that would love to have children that can't...My mother was one of them...I was adopted...

In a perfect world, dead against.

But hell, it's far from such a place. Still, ain't the babies fault.

Tough one...morally it's murder, and when is murder ever justified?

So many questions and different angles.

against, except in a real life or death situation for the mother.
People vote against capital punishment for a murderer or rapist etc. but will condon the death of an innocent

i still say no even if i was raped or going to die..if it was either me or the baby..the baby would lived..

I can't possibly agree with abortion on the basis of a child not fitting in with someone's lifestyle, as in having an abortion for convenience, no!! But there will always be mitigating circumstances whereby it may be the best option.

I am more for having the choice!!

I couldn't personally have an abortion because I was raised to believe it was murder, however, if my friend wanted to have an abortion I would support her decision. Who am I to try to force my beliefs onto other people?

Sorry, I can't vote on this one,...not enough choices.
Politically, I'm pro choice, but, as a man, I don't know how I would handle the mother of my potential child making the decision to terminate, and not have a choice myself. It takes two to create life, but only one to end it. It just doesn't FEEL right... But what the hell do I know. I'm just a man.

Wether I am for or against, or if I would have an abortion is not the point.
The point is,
it is for people to choose what it is they have to do at that moment in time.
It is not for me to tell anyone what they should or should not do in any situation.
So I am pro choice.
It is an awful situation for anyone to find themselves in.

as humans, we always try to decorate with good words the evil that we perpetrate. wether we like it or not, abortion snuffs out a young life. i can remember seeing women burst into uncontrollable display of emotions when a dead child is picked up from a war or famine ravaged nation or children perishing under human induced circumstances,..... i don't see the difference with abortion, the foetus is already alive and life is life. abortion only puts an end to that life !

I do not think it should be used as a form of birth control.

You make a good point but as soon as they make it illegal we will go back to women going to back alley abortion hacks or worse attempting to do it themselves like they did years ago.

It would be nice to live in a world where there would be no accidental, unwanted or rape initiated pregnancys but unfortunately we don't live in that world and it would seem that making abortion a personal choice is better than the alternative.

not having any options besides abortion is also our doing,.... we could rectify that and provide options. making it illegal would also control the mishaps of unwanted pregnancies. now we think about saving the womens lives and putting an end to a new innocent life.... for reason of not wanting it.

Yes,to a great extent it ought to be the womans choice.
























Damn,just put myself in the Doghouse again.

making it illegal would also control the mishaps of unwanted pregnancies.
How so????????

I am definately against abortion! I think a woman should have the right to decide, but I know how they do them, and its a horrible thing to do.

This part is very graphic, so beware if you are weak at the stomach, please dont read this part... It still makes me so very sad to even think about...And there may be other ways now, this was a few years ago... VERY GRAPHIC WORDS BELOW BEWARE!!!

If the baby is young enough in term, they inject saline solution into the amnotic fluid, and though the baby may not have limbs yet, it can be seen trying to pull away from this solution because it actually burns it from inside out until it dies. Then if the baby is to the point where it has to be delivered, they deliver everything except the head, stick a pair of scizzor like tools into the base of its skull and open them, the baby is moving the whole time trying to get free, once the tool is opened, they stick a vacuum into the scull and suck out the babies brains, this is when he/she finally stops moving...
I know that was a horrible thing to inform you all on, but I felt that maybe some of you didnt know how this was done, and maybe once you learned how cruel it is that you would change your mind on this subject.

Just to let you know a little about my background and why I have the right to post about this... I was 15 when I .... well lets just say I was pregnant, no need in the details of how it happened, but I considdered that abortion was an option, until they told me what they actually do. I knew then that I could never do this to a child, even one that hadnt been born yet. I could feel my son in my stomach, and there was no way thet I could go through with an abortion... My son is now about to be 8 yrs old, and I thank God every day that I have him and didnt make the biggest mistake of my life by aborting him... I would have felt bad about that for the rest of my life.

There are circumstances where it may be necessary though, if the baby is going to have an uncureable disease, or severely deformed to the point where he or she wouldnt have a good quality of life, but those are very extreme situations, and I pray that I am never put into that position.

Sorry if this offended anyone, it wasnt my point, I just wanted to leave a little background as to why I am against it so I dont have anyone jumping down my throat about it...

Thank you and i am sure alot didnt know this...maybe the votes will soon change

I hope conrad can sort this one out......lol

I am sure he will have something to say!!

I knew it was only a matter of time for that Story to surface!