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If I found a woman who wanted to wait a year before having sex with me, frankly I'd respect her.....

Can you imagine how much I'd respect her if she said she'd never have sex with me...?!

Hello and how are you/

horrible vision of Groom holding Bride in his arms about to carry her over the thresh-hold,"Put me down, you know I don't like to be touched." %D

What's wrong with waiting until you are MARRIED?? Don't get me wrong, sex is great, but sex and relationships are not necessarily hand-in-hand...not a given. In marriage, yes, it is (or should be) a given. But the way I was brought up, it is an expession normally shared by people who are committed to each other.
That said, I can't say I've always been able to be true to that thought, but it hasn't ever been because I brought it up or started anything. I've managed to put it off most of the time...and it is a hard thing to do, but it is apparently more personal to me than to many. Hopefully it doesn't send the wrong message if I put it off, but that's a risk I'll usually try to take. TRY...lol Also, I think there is a respect factor there. I'm not out for sex...I'm looking for someone who knows how to be real, and the best friend I've ever had. THAT makes for the best sex...in my opinion. Then, the two are truly one.
Yeah...I know...sounds old fashioned. Oh well. I gotta be me!

Long story short...Yeah...I'd wait. Better than some experiences I've had.

I completely agree
Im surprised that more people dont feel this way
but everyone is entitled to their own opinion, gotta respect that

Oh yes, but it would be fun trying to tempt!

Yes!

..lol

of course i would wait, a relationship isn't just all about sex!, its about setting foundations to have a greater relationship in the longterm then everything else will all just fall into place.

Yes I would..I would respect them enough to wait..Although it would be very hard...

Could I , well that's a very diffucult question , but for the right person yes, but I would attempt to persuade in the mean time

You're so bad...

Well , I've been told that once or twice,



























But I try to be good at it

Tricky.

I have seen..Remember I had the video camera?

At my age, waiting a year, would probably go into menopause, before then....

yea but that evidence was lost due to , erm , it got a tad wet while in the process

Ah No it didn't..I have a special underwater camera...