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Totally personally....

Getting physical messes with my emotions BADLY.
It's unbelievably great when it's great but separation tends to freak me (even when I agree with it, and I always do - both times).
I realise about myself that I cannot afford to go through life in a series of emotional tatters.
And I don't particularly enjoy beating guys off with sticks.
So I stay out of the game altogether.
Difficult to find someone that feels the same. And when I do it's usually another woman.

I am made to feel that I don't even have the right to ask someone to wait..... esp at my age.
I am made to feel abnormal. And it feels like pressure.
So as far as I'm concerned, if that's the deal, I can do without.

Gets lonely, sure.......... but c'est la vie!!!

First of all, sex and love aren't the same things. But sex with someone you love is by far the best.
If I saw enough potential in that relationship waiting would not be a problem.

Great to see so many people willing to wait

Absolutely if everything else was great. This usually/never happens within my age group (from my experiences) but I would, definitely.
Agree with everyone that said the relationship itself/friendship/love/caring/give and take, it's awesome even without sex.
JMO.

definitely

Cupcake, you should post in some of the other threads too. Let people get to know you.

I drove by your city last night on the way to Vancouver. I didn't see you anywhere.

oh did you
what did you think of it? : )


oh I have in the past.. quite a few times.. I stopped though b/c I always had rude responses to my posts and I just dont want to have that negativity in my life

dcj22, you said, "I wouldn't think we're very compatible.

Thanks for giving an honest answer.

I like your resonse, Alabama.

Bravo, Alabama!

I think that is one of the most important aspects of this question, Jbibza. Thank you for bringing that out. I was thinking the same thing, but who cares what a 58-year-old thinks, so thanks for saying it for me.

It looked like every other small city in the dark.

Don't let a negative response stop you from posting.

Breezee, maybe you'd feel more comfortable with a woman, or a very understanding man that you were willing to be upfront and honest with.

haha true
yeah, youre right I shouldnt.. I just thought it would be a good idea to avoid situations like that, to avoid that negativity

no problem with that at all.....as long as they understood that I would have occasional "outing" for a healthy sexual outlet!!