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Why is it that when I put up a profile here or anywhere else, I get messages and winks from guys who are divorced with kids even though I specifically state in my profile that I am NOT interested in dating guys who are divorced with kids????!!! I will NOT make special exceptions for ANYONE in this case. I AM open to dating widowers with older kids, or any guy with no kids. I just don't feel that I can handle the issues that arise with a guy who is divorced with kids, and don't want to deal with it. I wish guys would READ profiles and respect our feelings!

Those are called the guys that take a chance because they see or have read something in you that they like. I am divorced with children and want a man who either has children or loves children. Sometime you just have to tell them that the idea of children are not in your plans right now. just be gentle when you do it one of those guys may have taken a big chance with his heart in contacting you.

design....im gonna help you out...you need it..

ok....heres a news flash for ya.....men dont actually read profiles.....

if i was you...i would stop complainin about who winks ya..

instead ....why dont you choose your own man...

no need to thank me....its my pleasure

They just see your pic and think - hmm, she looks nice - they dont bother actually reading what youve written mate - sad but true fact Im afraid!

don't get annoyed at them- just take it as a compliment that they find you attractive- delete it and move on!

Now, now, don't throw a flury of combinations at all of us....some of us can read more than just a couple words

I wasnt stereotyping all men, I was referring to the ones who mail without reading first.

Guys with kids are too busy dodging flying Matchbox cars to read an entire profile.

True, I dont have any kids but I can imagine it would be very difficult to concentrate on anything for more than 2 mins without being interupted.

Why bother reading a woman's profile?

Women rarely say what they mean to begin with.

On the rare occassions when they do they usually change their mind within minutes anyway.

If her profile is more than 5 minutes old it probably has nothing to do with how she's thinking now anyway.

Ok - so who pissed you off today then?? Tommorow, get out of the OTHER side of the bed! LOL!

Yup not all men will take the time to read about how selfish and selfcentered you are.
Some times all it takes is an ok pic to get them to click. like with you...

Some of us men raising our children have done a good job and that is not a problem..

Was that aimed at me was it????

I'm pretty sure he was aiming at the OP. Just had to shoot through a lot of posts to hit it. (ha ha)

Why is women always think it's about them lol?
No it wasn't .. But if it offends you then maybe you should think about why it does ...hmmmm

Well I ducked and bobbed and weaved but it still got me!! LOL hahaha!

now that is the most intelligent thing i have read here in weeks

hahahaha - well you posted under me and didnt quote anything - I was kinda wondering why you were being so mean! hehehe - never mind! Im not offended, just wondered who rattled your cage!

The poster...
I have been dating for a while. Most of the single women out there have children. And They say they have a problem finding a man that can love their kids too.
I am a single father that has a problem with those same women felling like they can't get enough attention just
for them and their kids cuz I am alwys here for mine.
I am a damn good father and can get more then 2 min's
of time to talk and other.
So the shallowness of the female reply on here just
rubbed me wrong..