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My ex-husband......

He walked out on me for another woman after his daughter died....

He wasn't worth the trouble.....

...I plead the 5th

This is not nice to say but yes, I thought of killing my ex husband. When we used to go to the farm I did all the cooking and the spices were beside the rat poisioning. I used to think how could I get the rat poisioning only on his plate to makeit look like a just grabbed the wrong one by mistake, but I thought with my luck he will only get sick and then if he did die and I got caught I would end up going to prison. So I decided to leave him instead.

i'll speak to you on the ' tell us your life story ' thread soon

Can I just say a few words.

I am never the less going to

...we have all had wrong done to us,but for me I have to and believe that KARMA is a funny thing,and what goes around truly comes back around,and the time and effort that one puts forth in negative thought and or action is energy that could be put forth in a positive way .....:)

Yes,They Died,nothing

Yes I believe in KARMA too, but that was in a very dark period of my life when I believed I had no way out. I am glad that those thoughts did not stay with me.

Sure...My teen daughter....Life in prison stopped me!!!!!!!

Me too Linda..

In the last year of my marriage I used to lay in bed at night.. waiting for him to come home, (with my heart THUMPING in my chest- I'm sure you know that one) .. and think of what I could do to get rid of him. I came up with alsorts of things.. but was too scared to carry them out.

But at the very very end of my marriage.. one of the reasons I was FINALLY able to MAKE it end.. was because I *knew* if he laid one finger on my children (not counting me) again I was going to lose it.

Something in my head had changed and instead of standing there begging him to stop and crying my eyes out. (which I had done for 10yrs) I just felt absolute *RAGE* instead.

It scared ME that I *knew* I was prepared to kill him to make it stop.

The final time that did it for me was standing at the sink washing dishes .. with the knife block to the right hand side of me. I remember he came in and off he went.. it started.. he went on and on and ON.. and I remember TRYING not to cry and keep washing up.. but my eyes kept on and ON looking at the knife block.

Then it was battle inside myself.. *Pick up the knife Claire!*... No no DON'T look at them Claire.. *Pick up the knife Claire!!! Nooo Claire.. don't even LOOK at them!!

That was whizzing around inside my head until I couldn't stop shaking. Brain over load. Thats also why I believe people when they say they don't remember doing it.. *It was all just a blurr*.... I believe that.. because it's EXACTLY how I felt at that moment.

ha! actually.. that just upset me allowing myself to think of that moment. :: wipes eyes ::

But that was the very moment I KNEW I had to end the marriage.. whatever it took.. instead of wimping out as I had a million times before. Because If I didn't end it NOW.. I WAS going to kill him.. and I knew I wouldn't have been able to control myself.. If I had stabbed him once.. I would have stabbed him 100 times.. just to make him STOP.

Soo .. yeah.. I HAVE almost killed someone.

I believe in Karma too Linda .. and I know that dark place.

boy you sound like you've really been through it love !

Pffffffft!... yeah one of a trillion women.. thats all.

Raped my niece, and only reason he is still breathing is because my passenger grabbed the wheel and jerked it the other way.

I understand that fighting with yourself feeling. One time my ex was using the table saw and he told me be careful and not hit the switch as I would end up cutting off his hand, well I just looked at the switch and thought that is a good idea and thought again about "accidentily" hitting the switch, but again I did not do it only because could I actually get away with it looking like a accident.

He used to be so drunk he could not even walk but would get in the car to buy more liquor. I would sit there and pray that he would get in a car accident and die. I would be so disappointed when the car would turn into the driveway.

I knew like you did that I had to leave before I did actually do something. The last time was went he took a knife and put it at my throat and threatened to kill me, I took the knife away from him and he stood there and laughed and told me to kill him. I threw the knife down and he just continued laughing that he knew I did not have the guts to do it. The next day I moved out.

I TOTALLY understand that Linda..

My ex used to CRAWL up the stairs.. and was sooo drunk he was crashing from wall to wall as he stumbled through the corridors..

YET he had just driven 6 miles home.

I too used to lay in bed (heart THUMPING).. praying (yeah ME.. praying!).. that he would have a car crash on the way home.

I actually used to run through what I would say.. and how WOULD I try to sound upset on the phone if the police called and told me he had crashed. I used to WILL that phone to ring.

and I dont know about you..

But when he would come into the bedroom I had to pretend to be asleep.. OR...

if I had been up.. I had to RUN to the bedroom and leap into bed.. then try soooooooooo hard to slowwww my breathing riiiiiiiiiiiiiiight down... so that when he put his face into mine to see if I was awake .. I could pretend to be fast asleep.

Sometimes it worked.. sometimes it didn't.

Nearly killed my ex once i was going to hit him on the head from behind with a long handled brush. Just pulled it back in time and it came down with such a thud it broke the kitchen tiles. I then spent the next 2 hours in tears in my friends house thinking of what he turned me into. As i hate any kind of violence. Still feel a shamed of what i nearly did today.