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me loves your wit

Personally I think if it's all in good fun...I don't see a problem!!!!!!!!


Oh and to the person that started the thread you forgot tasered and baboo shoots under the finger nails!!!!!!!!!

Oppppppppsssssss.... *bamboo shoots...

ohh and Indy did a good job !! Even Bubbles as far as i remember had a thread similarly and it went well..

I have had this twice and probably thats the nicest thing someone's done for me so far !!

Though i would opine not to use names ... It depends on how its done and how you feel !!

To be honest I think its ok, We cant possibly like everyone on line. I think its fun when people show their didlike without getting too personal.There is a certann member that I just cant get on with, yet the banter is quite refreshing.
It certainly beats the sycophants.

if its done to demean someone, or to point a finger

then its bullying ....... simple as that

Normally it is not like this, Arthistorian.

AS for the rest of us, we really do need to let this go, it is water under the bridge.

I do appreciate your threads Gilly, even if I do not contribute most of the time.

To me Gilly is the goto guy here for threads, for often I do not think most of us would post to them as much.



But that is my opinion and it is worth about as much as you paid for it.

Gee Bubbles......what can I do to make up w/ya?

















I know.....I know....... SIZE MATTERS

You just keep showing that big soft heart of yours and your'e forgiven.

<making puppy dog face....

Just having a little light hearted fun... I think you're great...!

Ditto big boy.........



x10

If we didn't CS would be stuck with alot of these useless emoticons.....

U guys are so cute !!

I wouldnt want to read a bunch of bit**y posts about anything or anyone. I dont think anyone on here should post bad things about anyone else, it is childish... Its just gossip, I mean, most people on here dont know half of what the other people are about or where they are coming from. I for one am not going to form any personal opinions about anyone on here just because they may not think the exact same as I do on a particular subject. I mean if we get into an argument about one topic, I am not going to dislike them at all, and who knows when it comes to the next thread, we may see things the same. These are just discussions, and no two people will think the same on every topic posted...

So no I dont think posting about other people is a good thing if they are only saying bad things, however if its two friends joking around, then I dont see any harm there, as long as nobody gets out of hand!!

Good thread Gilly!!

But Riya..... You know what it all comes down to, don't ya?

yes i do !!

Exactly....somebody please start a thread about me....!!...

Gilly I have to say I'am sorry you got singled out in it.

But i think if you would drop the idea it is just about you and read the opinions.
You will see it is not because people dislike you.
it is mostly due to how its handled.

i think you have valid questions (at times)
i believe some of your post are very funny as intended

i think if you would just open your mind to it you will see
everyone does like you and values your presence here.
they would just like to see more of you in other peoples posts and would like to see less of the Extremely multiple postings.

I think if you were to get more involved with those who live where you have questions about you will truly get honest answers and less sillyness posts in your serious threads...

I mean i have no problem with you personally and think you are very inquisitive and funny also...
but even as much as i do like you i have to be honest and say when i come to the page and it is so full of all those random posts.

It truly is annoying... it looks like you are trying to say HEY TAK IN MY POSTS OR ....HA HA HA go find something of interest to you searching through the pages.....

It does seem to be a bullying of sorts...

the first page is setup to allow the latest posts and the mostposted threads.
i wonder how mant fun threads were placed on back pages noone got to see due to..NOT ONLY YOU but others as well filling up the front page with there own personal dribel...
it is nice to see postings from everyone... it is not so nice to see allt he postings being from only one...

Just think about it...
and again i do like you and it is not an attack just hope you can see that in all that is written on the subject.
Honesty is not always the happy way or even fun....but i think it should be respected when given openly.