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You the flippin truth? Why do they lie? Why do your friends think that you are stupid and won't find things out? Why do men think that they can play a good woman and that she won't find out? Tell me this please! I am to the point where I want to give up all together!!

Dumb men - numerous.

Patience Dusty...be uber cautious.

Sorry though.

these are not men.. they are still thinking like young boys.. thinking they can get away with anything.. time to man up

come on dusty....if you give up then you have nothing either....that decision wont make u happy either...
hang in there...yeh some men can be jerks and the worst of the worst. but dont give up, or you might miss the one ur looking for....

I"ve known many guys like that , but I never could , oppurtunity was there many times while I was married , but It went against my morals, sad thing was , turn around and I was done that way instead though three times, so I know what ur going thru

I am just so fed up with all the high school games I am 28 going to be 29 soon! I left all this in high school! I thought that once a person grew up that they would take responsibility for their actions. Not try to turn it around and blame and get ticked off at the one who found out!

I cant say much about men but i have had women that do the same thing maybe this will help, If one lies for so long they soon to believe no matter what they say is the truth , and most their friends are hearing lies like we broke up we just friends ect ect ... so they soon to believe that part of lie. What makes this hard is the one who listen to their heart when they have got caught in a lie usually understand as its a mistake and they soon to believe it will not happen again. Than it will maybe the next time even worst than before so when does it stop. Are we to take it like one day they will get their act together or do we go on. Questions remain the same but for the one who is lien all time No matter what you say or do it will always remain the same.

We see no truth in a lie they see all honesty in their lies.

here here brother

same story here i know your pain man...

i had the oppurtunity atleast 3 times a week for 12 years (contract Cable TV) with women where i went to thier homes... never did

then she did,we divorced,she came back...did again...came back...did again... and then could not understand why i said i don't love you anymore.


Not always the men... and statistics in my divorce care therapy was 80% women do it since the 80s and only 20% men....
12 people in group 2 ladies 10 men... seems the numbers where pretty accurate.
in defense of women the 50s 60s and 70s it was the reverse....

but i say it does not matter Gender... it still the same old skunk with different stripes stinking up society.

All this amounts to just one thing... being insensitive .. i guess.

Treat someone the way you would like to be treated .. if followed ardently .. will soften us to some extent atleast !!!

Sorry for you Dusty !

I just want to know do I look stupid or something? I mean I have seen this game go on so many times. I have even helped friends bust their cheating boyfriends and girlfriends. Yet this friend of mine still thinks that I will believe her when she asks another friend for advice on what to do about all of it thinking that she won't tell me and that when she asks advice on the same thing to me just changing names that I won't figure it out. I mean I was the one who busted them and neither her or the guy thought that I would think that I would figure it out when they are telling me we are just friends!

no u dont look stupid.....theres just selfish and inconsiderate ppl who we thought were our friends...
just be stronger then this and dont let them know ur mad and hurt..dont give them the power!

Keep strong Dusty. This too shall pass. I know it may sound like it’s easier said than done but, try to let this be another learning experience for you ok?

Dusty sorry to hear you got hurt again...

My way of thinking......why would she ask one of your friends what to do...knowing it would get back to you

Sounds to me this friend???? is very manipulative..sneaky and conniving..

wipe her...you dont need people like that in your life.....

I hope you find someone decent soon

Thank you Rivame and thank you to the rest of you also! I have alot of good friends but this friendship just started back in june and I thought that she would turn out to be like all my other good friends but the first chance she had she stabbed me in the back! I will wipe her and I will warn others about her!

Because they are men, simple as that

That simple??....women are the same, I think....

because women want t be lied

no they don't