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I am just curious... What is it with men who insist on a small skinny woman? not a "big mama" like myself?... Just so curious about the whole mess... There are men out there that love BBWs' but there seem to be far and few between in these types of settings. I mean I am not a bad person just becasue I am short and round like a weeble! lol Ok so it isnt that bad. But you get my drift I am sure.

Can anyone honestly tell me what it is about men only wanting the "America's Next Top Model" for a gf/wife ect...? I am not bitter becasue I know that men that like the big gurls exsist. I am just not sure what rock to turn over to try and find them.... So in my closing words I say POWER TO THE BIG GURLS! May we find our "prince charming's FATHER!" the KING! and he fall head over heals in love with us....

Now when it comes to bigger guys? I am all for that absolutly! I love a big ole Man! Teddy Bear type... of course we do... We all want a XXL... And Why not they are comphy, lovey dovey, sweet and warm.... As far as I can tell.... And I know that some gentelmen just are not attracted to us BBWs and that is fine but the rest of ya? what is your beef? We accept you as you are? Let me know.. I am very intrested!

Thanks!
XOXOXXOX
Misty Dawn

Personally, I don't like extremes - neither too skinny or too big.

Curves are so organic.

If they can cook is good enough for me A way to a man's heart is through their belly

How diplomatic you are.

Mistydawn, if you're happy in your skin and know there are plenty of guys out there who like big women what's the problem?

I agree with you. If Mistydawn is comfortable in her own skin that's fine. I am short and that is a problem too. I am comfortable in my skin, but I don't think there are a lot of men who like short women.

Well, as the saying goes...... "Never trust a skinny cook!".

I must add though, if you piss the cook off, skinny or round, I still would suggest hiring a taster.

there are plenty of men for every kind of woman!! Bottom line! as there are plenty of women for every kind of man!!

I agree with Jan...

Does it really matter, i mean everyone has different likes and dislikes. its doesnt make them right or wrong. if your okay with who you are and love yourself, thats all that matters. Your right there are plenty of men who like and enjoy BBW. so why does it matter that not all guys want BBW, not all guys want the skinny types either. who would want all men to like one type...that would be boring...

so i guess im not sure what your really asking or moreso why your asking?

I completely understand what you are saying Misty. All of us need love and want to be accepted for who we are, not what we look like.

I was obese 2 years ago. I weighed 340 lbs and was miserable. No woman wouldn't give me the time of day, much less love me. I wanted to be loved like everyone else.

Here is where we part ways. I decided not to wait around for someone to accept me...all 340 lbs of me. I was miserable being heavy and I thought it was time i did something about it. I went on a diet and exercise program and eventually lost 120 lbs. I started walking as my exercise, and could only walk about 2 blocks before I was too tired to continue. Now 2 years later, I am walking 16 miles a day.

I lost weight, felt alot better about myself and found women were attracted to me. I have had success on this dating site. I even fell in love for the 1st time in 13 years, and she loved me back!! People can say appearance isn't important, it is what's inside that counts. I wish that was true... in a perfect world, it would be. If you are not finding love, maybe it is time to change yourself instead of waiting for society to change. Good luck!!

wonderful mb, whatever makes u feel better

I think describing yourself as a weeble is absolutely adorable.

There are dating sites specifically geared toward BBW and BHM(big handsome men . . .I think). You might want to try there. Idk if they are free sites or pay sites but I know they're out there.

And remember, physical attraction is a matter of personal preference. Hang in there and you'll eventually land Mr. Right.

Well all of you had great comments... And I thank you for them all! This weeble is actually on a diet and excersising becasue I wanna a baby and I wanna be helathier than I am.... So if a BHM (which is my preference) Or a BBW (allso my preference) would like me after I am skinnier then I would never judge them and would be on it like blue bonnet! I am comfortable becasue I know that I can change and will change eventually. I love to laugh and be happy so I was just curious as too why most men are not into women like me? They look at the outward apperence first and then the inward never gets a chance to be seen... When guys have gotten to know me over the phone without a pic they have have been much more receptive of me upon meeting.. granted they are more likely to want me as a friend but hell friends are good......

You seem like a great lady and very pretty...am sure you will go far, you have lively spirit and great outlook!!!..dont lose it!!!

That's brilliant! WELL DONE! I love stories like that..

You look bloody great!