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cant figure out why people cant be satisfied

People cheat for all kinds of reason...

Some because they feel they are "missing" something vital in their relationship...

Some to make themself feel that they "still have it"...

Some just for plain revenge....

Some because they just don't have the courage to come out and tell their partner they are not happy and they want "out"...

This only applies to the selfish..low down...crap on the bottom of my shoe people!!!!!!!!

cheating is so painful to deal with, total betrayal

Some guys have to have their Kate and Edith too. I hope you caught that one!

Yeah it is...BUT think of it this way...Once they have shown the kind of deceiptful person they are...You can move on and find somebody worth loving!!!!!!!!!!

Amen!!

Some people think that the other side of the fence is greener......they go over there for a while and try to come back.......I guess they found out that really it what kind of manure they are using!

I agree with all of you that cheating is a hurtful thing a very hurtful and sad thing. but we all must remember that we are human beings and it is in our nature to procreate and to do that we must be able to have more than one partner in life..... Now that being said I do not fancy cheating on anyone in anyway shape or form.. But I know that it exsists and sometimes temptation is way to strong for you not to give in to it.. We are not Jesus we are human, sinful, full of lust, and desires that are wanting into a need to be fullfilled...

I have done both I have cheated and I have been cheated on. And both ways I was hurt beyond compare... No matter how I spin the tale it comes out to I failed and gave into temptation.. No matter what the circumstances were.... It doesnt matter,.... I became what I vowed I'd never be.... And since then I have no had that cheating spirit in me... I have to count my lucky stars that I was not "caught" or the lie never came to light.... I did this once and I vow never again... It is too painful for both the cheater and cheatee so to speak.... So in essence you have to have been on both sides of the fence to truely be able to know how badly it is to be cheated on and to cheat on someone else.... I know that I have learned my lessons the hard way.... the very hard way....... Hope this helps.....

XOXOX
Misty Dawn

because the relationship is not based in true love

Cheating isn't something to laugh about but this is funny!
How the hell do you come up with these

Sorry but in my opinion, and it's just my opinion....
How your opening statement is nothing but hogwash!
( some)Animals can not control their urges but HUMANS CAN.
Even some animals mate for life.
Humans have full control over their actions.
You make it sound like we don't... so what... if I get mad, is it ok to kill someone because I can't control it? NOT !!!

If it is out of your system Fantastic for you! life will be happier!

EXACTLY!!!!!

I would be willing to bet the relationship is over before the cheating begins..

I did get caught cheating once

I went bass fishing instead of cats,

After that I couldn't catch a catfish for years

for some, it's a high just like a lie

I just don’t understand it, maybe I’m just missing something here, but what could that be? A co-worker of mine had cheated on her husband, three times , and I guess is thinking of doing it again.

Her reason: she said she thinks that she’s fed up being her husband’s wife and being a mother. I thought to myself, could that be possible? You’re sick and tired of a life you chose for yourself so what, you’d cheat on the person you’ve exchanged vows with? It’s just that… Well, it’s wrong!

I belive people cheat because most people only get together for the sex. Then once the sex runs dry or they tire of it, they find new. In a way we do it with lots of things. Cars,tv shows, fishing lures. For women, shoes, house appliences.

people cheat as a form of escape from the life they chose to have. they get tired and want out(be it temporarily or permanently) we all know its wrong but people choose to ignore...