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If a guy you worked with flirted with you but never asked you out would things become awkward if he never asked you out? And how long would it be until you got frustrated and gave up?

flirting is so much more fun..
wouldnt ever feel awkward...
dont think i would get flustrated
would never start so wouldnt have to give up, i wouldnt want to date someone from work...cuz then it would be awkward.

No, it wouldn't be awkward, I don't get embarrassed easily.

"And how long would it be until you got frustrated and gave up?"

Not long!!!

I have no time for men with no back-bone....!! I am too long in the tooth to waste valuable time pining after someone who simply can't get his act together......... I'd move on!!

Interesting. But what if it was just idle flirting?

been there, done that, it lasted as long as the job did. Made time go by and it was fun! I don't think either of us really wanted to go out with each other. The attraction was strong-why wreck a good thing

I would prefer he never asks; don't mix business with pleasure.

DON'T ever make your honey where you make your money...
very wise words, i have seen many failures that turned into unemployeement.

I would say in the work place... Unless you are the owner... keep it fun and light but no relations beyond friendships.

this happened to me... when I was a student I had a part-time job and got on really with the boss... there was flirting going on for ages and one night we ended up talking right through the nite until 7am in the morning.. and he still didn't ask me out.. I ended up asking him out, cause I knew nothing would happen otherwise .. it worked out in the end though as we were together for 6 years

I would just flirt back and keepit easy. No date necessary. But, as I've confessed in another thread, I'm a shameless flirt.

The workplace is a lot like CS sometimes, lots of flirting but no real action!

About 5 of the guys at work flirt with me but they never ask me out
because they are married or living with their girlfriends and no there's no awkwardness involved.. ..

It really depends upon your relationship with this person. A lot of time, guys flirt but girls will think of this as being a friend. So, if you have a fun, outgoing relationship she may just think you are her friend and think nothing else about it. If you want to try to be more than friends but not make it awkward, invite her to a group outing when you are going somewhere with a group of friends. If she is interested, you will find out that night.

I have no time for men with no back-bone....!! I am too long in the tooth to waste valuable time pining after someone who simply can't get his act together......... I'd move on!!




...I have the same opinion of women