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At a German dating site just now, I wrote kind of light hearted with a bloke.... for quite a while ....

At that German site I am registered 43, as with 45 the bastards want women to pay!!!! Its for free if men write to a women who is above 45! Is that crap or what??????

However, we wrote nice and fun until the topic "dominant" was raised by him. I said I am not into that stuff. I prefer a man to be dominant rather, I dont want to be AGAIN the stronger partner... in whichever way...

Trying to give him a way out, instead of saying he is freaking sick, or whatever...

Anyway ... I had given him the link to this forum, as I have more pics up here, and at the German forum I only have the pic at the castle gate.

Besides I wanted him to have that option to join here, as its a good site.

Here my age is my true age 46.

At any rate the bloke then replied ... blar blar about his sub-role ... aaaaaaaaaaaaaaand it would pay to be more honest about my age!!! HIM not even knowing the background to why my age there is 43.

Why the heck cant he just BE MAN enough to say OK, we are no match???

I wrote back: You know Jürgen, you could have saved yourself the last line.

Women above 45 have to be paying members!
Since you are good at accounting (he is a controller) how much do I save?

I know its full moon coming up, but I have had a gut full of it .... at any size moon, I tell you.

I know the felling Uli

That's so unfair!

How do they come up with the cut off point 45?

What's the reasoning behind it?

Ageism

Poor Uli here's a few to cheer you up...
You'll allways have CS

I guess I would have to go on some dates before I could be sick of dating...?

Greed, dear ... just greed :))

Instead of saying lets ask 2 Euros of every women, they charge 12 Euros of of those past child bearing ... sort'a implying "Wo'd want you, you're ovaries had it, so out on the scrap heap with you ... "

the only dates I have seen are of the eating variety and figs.

Ok...let me get this straight......are u ticked off with men who won't take the lead, or are you cheesed by the age bracket thingy and paying??....or are you just p*ssed off in general??...

Or are you just SICK ..of online dating per se...???

Well I bet you're just one of many who lied about your age then!

Are men over 45 charged too?

I hear ya there! rwantin

NOW THATS JUST GETTING RIGHT DOWN TO THE POINT HUH

There will be story number 2 coming up. Also fresh out of Uli's life ...

Mind you ... I have lead a reclusive life the past many months ... but all these inquiries by friends ... kept grinding away and I gave in and checked the German site and low and behold they had a promotion and let me have a few trial days FOR FREE.
I found out TODAY.

So in I put my castle arch pic and I get bombarded with mails.

Every 20 min. the site wipes my pic!
I uploaded again of course.
I suppose they - being German - want a biometric pic, or what?

So one guy, fun profile writes...
I write back, and he straight away want to yap on the blower (phone)
At first I wasnt in the mood, just having gotten up and being overwhelmed with the response... so he went shopping cat food.
Fair enough.

However, later on in the arvo' I felt like calling, since his profile seemed the best out'a the lot.

I rang, he had a nice voice, sounded sane, sense humor and good stories to tell.

He lives 29 clicks out'a town. I live near the city center.

So we agree to meet near one of the Christmas markets, at a Starbucks, making it EASIER for him who isnt to familiar with Cologne. I cycled into town minus 3 C!

He rings at 16.30 ... telling me it was hell and he cant find a parking spot! I suggest an area, he said he'd been to that street .. he said he'd been there. He would continue looking

So I go to that street and find a parking spot. Block it with my bike.
Ring him, if he was near by still he could have it. He said: Oh, I just driven past that street... and my car wont fit through the entrance of a multi-storey car park.

Meanwhile Germans row up barking and yelling at me... what audacity to block the parking bay. I explain, a friend will be coming whose car wont fit into multi-storey car park. Words fly of three car drivers ... I stand there jaw open.

One got out and grabbed the bike forcefully off of me ... well thats the German CHRISTMAS Spirit, aint it ... I say!

So I ride to the next parking bay which is free. I ring him: He is agitated ... sooking. A tiny car stops, a young turk, who isnt a turk, cos he didnt understand my turkish, tells me he's got to have that parking bay. I ask him to use that multi-storey car park 10 m away from where we are. He refuses and keeps talking til the cows come home. Minus 3 C is cold ... spending it with some idiot arguing for nothing.

Meanwhile Reinhold rings. Exasperated, ... whining ... he cant find a car park... I ask him to get to where I am. No he meanwhile is in another suburb

OK, say I. I will head to the next Christmas market at Rudolphplatz. Its a smaller market and easier to get to for him.

There I stand having a hot claret chatting with an interesting girl I met (the best thing out'a the whole ordeal) He rings, and says he is at Rudolphplatz.

Excellent I say, so if you approach the medieval gate I am near a booth where they sell hot mulled claret. The Market is the size of about 30m by 40 m. You dont get lost. Not when you are 1.99m tall as he is!!!!!

I wait 5 min, 10 min, 15 min... nobody. I ring him. No answer or message bank where you cant leave a message.

Finally after all up 30 min. I get a text message.

"It was not supposed to be. I am back in my car and driving home. It was too crowded for me. sorry! "

I am pissed off since December 2006 when they introduced the pay business.

Then I had that experience with the No 2 freak who is to freaking stupid to find a car park ... and then Number 1 happened in the evening who wants to be told where to go and what to do by a woman.

Get it Lagoona ???

Try being a woman for a day wanting a date!

Woman I hope you are joking for your sake!!! I've had it for today with blokes, but Puuuuuuuhlease dont YOU as a women tell me too, you dont get the dam drift!!!!

I am not LYING about my age for the sake of making my self younger, as I stipulated it IS BECAUSE they CHARGE WOMEN above 45!

I disagree with the age/pay business.

Oh, by the way ... in fact on December 17th I turned 46,5 years.

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Now for all who didnt understand:

The bloke was peeved off because I couldnt/wouldnt become his dominant mistress, and because he was pissed off ... after having sucked up to me about beauty and bla blar before ... he had to stab somewhere, so he took the age bit.

Do you think the age would have mattered if I had been willing???

Those blokes as you call them are blind and stupid.To be able to spend any time with a woman like you would be heaven.Just be glade it didn't work out cause your to good of a person to get stuck with brain dead men like that. Here's to you and may you find happyness in your travils.And to be "Dominant" over you. Would be one great adventure that would never end.It would so Pleasing on both sides of the fence. Hang in there girl.Good times are worth waiting for.And may them never end when you find it.

Thanks that cheers me up big time...

But - alas - it wont change my

rather staying at home alone,

travel alone

go out alone

fulfill my dreams alone ...

Cos I'd never get to do anything,

if a HE

who I happen to sit in the car with,

cant find a parking spot,

doesnt dare going down a dirt track in Sth Africa

is to scared to travel by train through Turkey

and cant pays his way

what ever the plans are.