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Ulimaroa, I sooooo hear you...... I'd actually have said it's unbelievable, but sadly I know it's the reality.

Actually you bring up an interesting (to me) subject about finding each other/the place where you arranged to meet. I may have had lots of bad experiences or something, LOL, but I cannot tell you just how greatly I rejoice at heart when the man (be it for dating, business or whatever) actually CAN find the place where we arranged to meet, without whining, calling me on the phone, complaining etc. Major bonus points!!!

I also absolutely hear you regarding the dominance thing and finding a partner stronger than yourself. Geez. You'd think they'd naturally be stronger in all aspects owing to their sex, but nooooo.... I am tired of having to plan what we're going to do, arranging where we're going to go, studying the maps, tanking up the car, driving us there (!!), thinking of things to say to keep the conversation going, plus hearing complaints about the wrong kind of weather, a little rain, poor/expensive food at the roadside restaurant, cough/cold/sniffles about to begin, etc etc etc. I am wondering if ever in life I will have someone - preferably a man indeed - actually arrange things and take us someplace nice, so I can finally sit in that passenger seat and just enjoy the scenery and his company. I am beginning to forget how it actually feels.

Wow, that came out very angry, but it's the unfortunate state of things.

Wow - you're willing to do all those things, Audry?!! By the way, we do you believe being "stronger" has anything to do with maintaining conversations or planning or studying maps (I do understand the part about complaining over sniffles, etc.)?

I see no reason to believe there's any fundamental difference in strength between men and women. It seems likely that they have somewhat different strengths, that's all.

Jeff

All i can Ulimaroa Sod them they are kn*b heads their loss.

I know precisely what you are saying AudrysSis.

Maybe its the mothering and natural instinct

that keeps

us going to plan, arrange, entertain, advise

aaaand be FEARLESS?

Oh yeah???

What are they Ambroooose???

Those dang KrisKringleMarts......always so damn full of people.........

I loved those markets when I was in Germany.......

KrisKringleMarts ?

Cuuuuuuuuute!

Well, I am certain if you carved

your way through the crowd

on a Christkindel Market

it would part like

the red sea did

for Moses

I stand corrected on the ChristKindel Market.....dammit.....

No parting of the Red Sea....just some Gluhwein ( think I spelled it correctly).........and a smoke......

Loved it.....I have some pics from way back then.....

after two Glühwein (you did really well here, and you cant help it your keyboard wasnt put together correctly in China, where they left out the ü and ö and ä and instead put in $ and 69 and § ) and a fag you feel warm on any Christkindel Market.

No need to hug, although you could hug the world after

I'd just like to say that a 69 at the right place and time makes up for those thingys being left offn' my keyboard......

and a couple of Gluhwein....sometimes facilitated that.....Muuuaaaa haaaa haaaaaaaaa.....

they should pay closer attention to ur profile

Incidentally, generally ( I am surprised in fact )

the German men more often than not

dooooooo read the profile.

My German profile is

simple...

funny...

easy to understand...

gives plenty to refer to

and easy to read.

Not deep and meaningful, as the profile

of all my competition

what competiton

40 million blond,

tall,

long-legged,

young German girls...

and the more you head East,

the more beautiful skinned/faced/bodied they get

Damn.....I miss Deutschland..........

all those hotties in need of my attentions......LMFAO....

Women's strengths are being soft, sweet, and pliable, whereas men's are being hard, sour, and inflexible?

Seriously, for one, I think women are stronger than men (in general) at facing their emotions; they're more comfortable with their emotions (in general!) than are men. Men are perhaps more easily able to set aside their emotions to take purposeful actions (such as pursuing certain goals). I think men are more naturally inclined, in general again, to take the initiative and lead; women are more inclined generally to take a less direct approach, and are more willing to follow.

Please remember - these are generalizations!

u should try being male, short and apparently cute...the ladies want to give u a hug then put u on the shelf like a teddy bear until they are lonely again. Sure nocks the stuffing out of u

Ah, but do they have your mind, Uli?

I will weigh in on the nice guy versus bad boy debate. Lets be honest here, women don't like nice guys. They like men who they perceive as a challenge, they like men who are dangerous, they like men who they feel will protect them in a fight.

When a guy comes across as nice, women perceive that to be weak. This myth is backed up heavily in pop culture, just look at the covers of romance novels which feature muscle-bound, Fabio clones ripping women's clothes off. The problem is the tough, brooding unpredictable guy is not very reliable. And sometimes being with a dangerous man can land a woman in hot water, ask Pamela Anderson and Whitney Houston.

Better on a shelf warm and dry,

then out in the cold, no?