drama is a requirement or what?

mindfful
--, Missouri USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:32 PM CST

long story short
phone for a few months
seemed fine-tho i am generally a slow go-er...
met
hosted at my home a few days
he changed my CS password while there

bunch of other stuff
not appropriate to discuss

let it be known i retain my purity
as well as my optimism

but if i owe anyone an apology
it may have not been me that time! really!

i think he just read my mail and got mad tho?

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riyablossom
somewhere .. , Pennsylvania USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:33 PM CST

I dont totally understand .. is all fine ?

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StarliteFantazy
FantazyLand, Missouri USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:34 PM CST

In response to:

long story short
phone for a few months
seemed fine-tho i am generally a slow go-er...
met
hosted at my home a few days
he changed my CS password while there

bunch of other stuff
not appropriate to discuss

let it be known i retain my purity
as well as my optimism

but if i owe anyone an apology
it may have not been me that time! really!

i think he just read my mail and got mad tho?

dang girl so sorry to hear

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rwantin
Costa Mesa, California USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:34 PM CST

Drama is indeed a requirement. Otherwise, we'd be stuck watching shows on FOX...

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mindfful
--, Missouri USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:34 PM CST

am i nuts to still be willing to meet someone?
other than being nuts in general i mean?

i am mortified to tell my grown sons what has happened
and that i am now at their home w/ no means
of transportation back to mine...

adult kids think they are so damn smart

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constanza
Los Angeles, California USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:35 PM CST

immaturity, insecurity....

Imagine if he did that now what he will be like later?

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blue_eyed_blonde
Vinton, Iowa USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:38 PM CST

im sorry ...

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mindfful
--, Missouri USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:44 PM CST

yes constanza you are right

nonetheless i accepted a ride i thot would be round trip
now im stranded in chicago and must ask my grown (judgemental) kids for help

can we never ever trust?
i mean gosh!

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prncss4someone
Hopeful, Michigan USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:45 PM CST

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am i nuts to still be willing to meet someone?
other than being nuts in general i mean?

i am mortified to tell my grown sons what has happened
and that i am now at their home w/ no means
of transportation back to mine...

adult kids think they are so damn smart

no, you are not nuts to be willing to meet someone

just keep strangers out of your house!!!

cyber talking and phone talking doesn't mean he is not a stranger, remember that!

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arabella
Near Farmington, Maine USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:45 PM CST

Yipes!!!

Privacy is your right in your own home.

Read your mail???

Geez!

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Eupho
Wild Wild South West, England UK

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:45 PM CST

In response to:

long story short
phone for a few months
seemed fine-tho i am generally a slow go-er...
met
hosted at my home a few days
he changed my CS password while there

bunch of other stuff
not appropriate to discuss

let it be known i retain my purity
as well as my optimism

but if i owe anyone an apology
it may have not been me that time! really!

i think he just read my mail and got mad tho?

F*ck him MindfFul (no.. not like THAT)

not the kind of person you need in your life.. what an arse.

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StarliteFantazy
FantazyLand, Missouri USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:46 PM CST

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yes constanza you are right

nonetheless i accepted a ride i thot would be round trip
now im stranded in chicago and must ask my grown (judgemental) kids for help

can we never ever trust?
i mean gosh!

oh goodness worse than i thought

trust.......i don't do it well at all

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prncss4someone
Hopeful, Michigan USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:46 PM CST

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yes constanza you are right

nonetheless i accepted a ride i thot would be round trip
now im stranded in chicago and must ask my grown (judgemental) kids for help

can we never ever trust?
i mean gosh!

wtf?

sorry, wished I lived closer, I'd pick ya up......just tell the kids he was creepy and you didn't want to ride back with him. It'll make it a bit easier on you

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shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:47 PM CST

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Drama is indeed a requirement. Otherwise, we'd be stuck watching shows on FOX...

nothing could force me to do that.........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................except house

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Eupho
Wild Wild South West, England UK

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:48 PM CST

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oh goodness worse than i thought

trust.......i don't do it well at all

me neither Amy.. I don't trust many people at all.

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Eupho
Wild Wild South West, England UK

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:48 PM CST

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wtf?

sorry, wished I lived closer, I'd pick ya up......just tell the kids he was creepy and you didn't want to ride back with him. It'll make it a bit easier on you

yeah thats an idea

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mindfful
--, Missouri USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:51 PM CST

princess
ok
whatever

at some point one moves to the next level

but we arent all perfect-
and im a bit touchy so felt a bit scolded there

i have my part of course-
in hindsight 'if only id made different choices'
but hey-im no idiot and at the time those choices seemed appropriate

im not here looking for sympathy or necessarily sending out any alarms either-just sharing a bit-ive been here and there are people who wanna know wots up w/ me
and this is the quickest way-like mass email kinda

yes bella-i would think boundaries were in place w/ most adults
after months of talking-always keeping it only casual
i wouldnt have expected any of this-
otherwise i wouldnt have invited him

its not like we chatted 2 wks and announced love
and met and screwed...? im not here whining or justifying
but i am taken aback and came here to share-
its what i do sometimes...

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Dark1Angel8
Omaha, Nebraska USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:52 PM CST

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am i nuts to still be willing to meet someone?
other than being nuts in general i mean?

i am mortified to tell my grown sons what has happened
and that i am now at their home w/ no means
of transportation back to mine...

adult kids think they are so damn smart

Mindful, you're not nuts to still be willing to meet someone. If you are, then I am too. Believe me, I have some experiences with men that would probably curl your hair and yet I am still willing to meet someone. Everyone deserves that person that will be there for them and love them no matter what. If you don't take chances, the moment could pass you by....

The guy was a jerk. Many of them out there. Apparently, he was also insecure; so much so that he had to read your email and change your passwords? YIKES! Just be thankful that you found out about him now rather than much further down the line.

As far as telling your sons, well, you know what? You're human and you made a mistake. I'm sure they'll understand and just be happy that their mom is ok and with them, instead of stuck somewhere alone.

Glad things are fine though! Best of luck to you!

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mindfful
--, Missouri USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:53 PM CST

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nothing could force me to do that.........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................except house

H O U S E

i bet we identify w/ him a bit eh?

oh well....

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prncss4someone
Hopeful, Michigan USA

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:54 PM CST

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princess
ok
whatever

at some point one moves to the next level

but we arent all perfect-
and im a bit touchy so felt a bit scolded there

i have my part of course-
in hindsight 'if only id made different choices'
but hey-im no idiot and at the time those choices seemed appropriate

im not here looking for sympathy or necessarily sending out any alarms either-just sharing a bit-ive been here and there are people who wanna know wots up w/ me
and this is the quickest way-like mass email kinda

yes bella-i would think boundaries were in place w/ most adults
after months of talking-always keeping it only casual
i wouldnt have expected any of this-
otherwise i wouldnt have invited him

its not like we chatted 2 wks and announced love
and met and screwed...? im not here whining or justifying
but i am taken aback and came here to share-
its what i do sometimes...