mindfful wrote:to stay in our conversation
i didnt meet the guy after just a few emails
and you never said about becoming disappointed after a long time
lets all not get in relationships sowe will never be disappointed
yeah that'll work
noot
im disappointed RIGHT NOW
alex-some people here agree on some things
some dont
youve seen arguments on here
but i will make on guarantee
none of these people in forum got to be friendly or share likes w/o getting to know each other
you just go around criticizing -
how can anyone become friendly with you?
i really have defended you to a number of ppl in email
i really thot the problem was just a language barrier but you seem to really want to annoy
as i said
enjoy yourself
thats why we are all here
if this is what you enjoy
focusing only on what you find wrong
that is all you will see
but you do have every right to do this
absolutely
my first post on any thread is related to the topic
it is always my view point
there is nothing to argue or debate there
if people do not like my view point they can ignore my post the same way they will ignore some one saying someting in real life
they will avoid confrontation
but here, they feel so powerfull hiding behind the keyboard and with the "friends" jumpint to pick an any one they dislike their post
if some one is trully interested in undertanding, they wil ask the reazons (and yes, there are few people here doing it)
there are a few people here they always disagree on my view point, but they never went to a personal atack for the disagreement
there are always several ways to aproach discrepancies
one is that i have found most of the people do here
they start yelling they disagreee with me
they gather toghether beliveing that if all of them yell at the same time they will convince me to change my mind
the other way, done by only a few, is to ask the reazons or how i arrive to the conclutions i have
that leads to a constructive debate, where i can leanr something form them
that way leads more than once that i could undetand better theyr view point
and thos that chosed the second way on private mail, are the few one i admire on this site
they showed they are more interested in building a bridge of cominucations than show they are unable to comunicate
think for a while
this is a dating site, and i belive (you dont have to agree) that comunications is important in a relationship
how will i consider to be a better mate, the ones yelling they disagreement , or the ones building a bridge for comunication
food for your thought