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drama is a requirement or what?

Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:55 PM CST
thanks angel

yeah i was at the point that it seemed safe to try it out

this is one biiig reason i stay celibate

it all hurts so much more if that is in play

i am clear in this case that whatever part i may have
i am not being rejected on that basis

this is prolly not just a girl thing?
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prncss4someone
Hopeful, Michigan USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 1:59 PM CST
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thanks angel

yeah i was at the point that it seemed safe to try it out

this is one biiig reason i stay celibate

it all hurts so much more if that is in play

i am clear in this case that whatever part i may have
i am not being rejected on that basis

this is prolly not just a girl thing?
naw, some guys tell me about the stuff they were put through, and it wasn't pretty. We are all humans, so I don't think it has much to do with gender....gift
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:00 PM CST
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long story short
phone for a few months
seemed fine-tho i am generally a slow go-er...
met
hosted at my home a few days
he changed my CS password while there

bunch of other stuff
not appropriate to discuss

let it be known i retain my purity
as well as my optimism



but if i owe anyone an apology
it may have not been me that time! really!

i think he just read my mail and got mad tho?

UMMMMMMMMMMM...I don't even think I need to say my thoughts on that one doll...You probably already know....NOT worth the effort to worry aboutd though...You're a damn good woman and you will find someone that loves and appreciates you for who you are and doesn't feel the need to have you as a possession!!!!!!!!

Merry Christmas doll and hey check your e-cards...wink hug hug waving santa gift
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Dark1Angel8
Omaha, Nebraska USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:00 PM CST
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thanks angel

yeah i was at the point that it seemed safe to try it out

this is one biiig reason i stay celibate

it all hurts so much more if that is in play

i am clear in this case that whatever part i may have
i am not being rejected on that basis

this is prolly not just a girl thing?
Nope, there are many crazy, insecure women out there too. A famous movie one: Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction. As I have a lot of male friends, I've seen more than a couple go through some psycho girls. Including one that called me to pick him up in Lincoln as he was stranded because of the fact he talked to a girl at the bar that he happened to know from here for a few minutes and then she, the girl he went there with, went ballistic and took off on him (his side of the story).

I know that it hurts right now, but it'll fade away. Just have to kiss a lot of toads to find a prince.
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Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:01 PM CST
sweety...im again more sorry then i was before...can you enlighten me a tad bit more....im lil shockedblues hug
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Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:04 PM CST
i dunno if im hurt

mostly just in shock

and a bit embarrassed about my choice...


oops

wow!


been a loooong time since ive seen anyone wind themselves up
and blow like a hurricane

then today to find that my password was changed

he had to blow out or face that and whatever other
inconsistencies may have been discovered

ive done that type of thing before-i remember
its not comfortable to be on that end either
but ill be compassionate from AFAR
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Dark1Angel8
Omaha, Nebraska USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:06 PM CST
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i dunno if im hurt

mostly just in shock

and a bit embarrassed about my choice...


oops




been a loooong time since ive seen anyone wind themselves up
and blow like a hurricane

then today to find that my password was changed

he had to blow out or face that and whatever other
inconsistencies may have been discovered

ive done that type of thing before-i remember
its not comfortable to be on that end either
but ill be compassionate from AFAR
Mindful, you shouldn't be embarrassed about your choice. You didn't know that he was going to be that way.
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Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:20 PM CST
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naw, some guys tell me about the stuff they were put through, and it wasn't pretty. We are all humans, so I don't think it has much to do with gender....
i meant that comment about not just a girl thing
regarding not jumping into bed making things less painful later
if it doesnt work out...??

wow maybe i am shaken and im not makin any sense
(finalllly-an excuse for not making sense-)
grin
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Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:23 PM CST
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i meant that comment about not just a girl thing
regarding not jumping into bed making things less painful later
if it doesnt work out...??

wow maybe i am shaken and im not makin any sense
(finalllly-an excuse for not making sense-)
you ok sweety...we're here with youhug
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Jan1305
(Moscow region temporarily), Murcia Spain
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:27 PM CST
So when are you going to get your butt over here in Spain?

Change of subject somewhat, but something else for you to think about and focus on!

wave
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Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:30 PM CST
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So when are you going to get your butt over here in Spain?

Change of subject somewhat, but something else for you to think about and focus on!

hey jaaan

turns out that was part of the resentment??

anyway may
waiting for school to be out for my 14 yr old

note: no animals were hurt during the filming of this episode

lol

laugh
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Dark1Angel8
Omaha, Nebraska USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:32 PM CST
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i meant that comment about not just a girl thing
regarding not jumping into bed making things less painful later
if it doesnt work out...??

wow maybe i am shaken and im not makin any sense
(finalllly-an excuse for not making sense-)
As far as it being a girl thing regarding not jumping into bed right away....

Unfortunately, in my experience, it is a girl thing with the exception of a few guys that I've seen in the forums who state they aren't like that.

In the six bad first dates I had in a row, everyone of them tried to score on the first date and everyone of them walked away pissed because I'm not into that. Of course, not one called me for a second date and thats fine. Personally, I rather protect my heart and my health (scary stuff out there).....
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Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:35 PM CST
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As far as it being a girl thing regarding not jumping into bed right away....

Unfortunately, in my experience, it is a girl thing with the exception of a few guys that I've seen in the forums who state they aren't like that.

In the six bad first dates I had in a row, everyone of them tried to score on the first date and everyone of them walked away pissed because I'm not into that. Of course, not one called me for a second date and thats fine. Personally, I rather protect my heart and my health (scary stuff out there).....
agreed

but there was no kissing either

that only leads to other things-lol
i am good at getting carried away in that respect
so i choose my victims carefully

maybe thats whats wrong?
im not affecting the odds cuz im not kissing the toads??

rolling on the floor laughing
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:36 PM CST
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hey jaaan

turns out that was part of the resentment??

anyway may
waiting for school to be out for my 14 yr old

note: no animals were hurt during the filming of this episode

lol

Heyyyyyyyyyyy am I invisible or whatttttttttttt??????????


sticking out tongue blues christmas sad
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Dark1Angel8
Omaha, Nebraska USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:41 PM CST
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agreed

but there was no kissing either

that only leads to other things-lol
i am good at getting carried away in that respect
so i choose my victims carefully

maybe thats whats wrong?
im not affecting the odds cuz im not kissing the toads??

Nah, I'm particular in who I kiss as well. One got a kiss on the cheek as a "thank you for taking me out" because while he was pissed off that he wasnt going to score, he was at least decent about it, unlike the other 5, who called me names or tried to steal my car keys.

The "tried to steal my car keys" guy got an injured hand instead.

The guy I actually dated for about a month was the first guy that I actually kissed in just over a year.

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Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:45 PM CST
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Nah, I'm particular in who I kiss as well. One got a kiss on the cheek as a "thank you for taking me out" because while he was pissed off that he wasnt going to score, he was at least decent about it, unlike the other 5, who called me names or tried to steal my car keys.

The "tried to steal my car keys" guy got an injured hand instead.

The guy I actually dated for about a month was the first guy that I actually kissed in just over a year.

eechhh

i can identify

man

we are talking here about people in their 40s tho
i thot it gets better??


sigh
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Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:45 PM CST
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Heyyyyyyyyyyy am I invisible or whatttttttttttt??????????


goofy b

you have mail
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 2:48 PM CST
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goofy b

you have mail
It musta gor re-routed by the US postal service...Just checked my box and ummmmmmmmmm...NOPE!!!!!!!!!!!!

rolling eyes confused waving santa gift
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cardsfan24
somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 3:06 PM CST
You have to try a lot of ice cream flavors to find your favorite...
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Oslojente
Olso Norway
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 3:08 PM CST
Bunny boiler comes to mind...



I'm glad you're fine, safe and sound!!!!


hug kiss
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