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gatoraidkitty
Charleston, West Virginia USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:25 PM CST
met this fella on CS, talked for a few months by phone and e-mail...he made plans to come see me this weekend...then did a no show...no call....no nothing....WTF? all the way to the day before he was so sweet and talking like he was excited....then that....again...WTF?
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rwantin
Costa Mesa, California USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:27 PM CST
Someone has some 'splainin' to do and/or is a complete thoughtless moron.
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sexophone
Gothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:27 PM CST
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met this fella on CS, talked for a few months by phone and e-mail...he made plans to come see me this weekend...then did a no show...no call....no nothing....WTF? all the way to the day before he was so sweet and talking like he was excited....then that....again...WTF?
he's probably a content single ......... laugh
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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:27 PM CST
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met this fella on CS, talked for a few months by phone and e-mail...he made plans to come see me this weekend...then did a no show...no call....no nothing....WTF? all the way to the day before he was so sweet and talking like he was excited....then that....again...WTF?
Maybe something came up and couldnt get the chance to tell you...wait for a couple of days and see if he gets a hold of you..if not you try and get a hold of him...may have been an emergency..i hope things work out ok..
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sexophone
Gothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:28 PM CST
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he's probably a content single .........
contented
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gatoraidkitty
Charleston, West Virginia USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:28 PM CST
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Someone has some 'splainin' to do and/or is a complete thoughtless moron.
i attempted to call him ONCE left a voice mail asking if everthing was okay....then a few hours later attempted to call and got the vm again...didn't bother to leave a message.....figured if he wanted me to know what happened he'd call me....
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gatoraidkitty
Charleston, West Virginia USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:30 PM CST
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contented
then why bother making the plans to visit then?
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gatoraidkitty
Charleston, West Virginia USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:31 PM CST
and....it's not like i'm in jr high school and can't take dissapointment...but he could have been mature enough to say" hay i changed my mind" or "something came up", I think he was just a rude @$$ to not call or anything...
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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:31 PM CST


Did he hear about your gay pets?
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Indyfella
indianapolis, Indiana USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:32 PM CST
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and....it's not like i'm in jr high school and can't take dissapointment...but he could have been mature enough to say" hay i changed my mind" or "something came up", I think he was just a rude @$$ to not call or anything...


agree~~~~`
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gatoraidkitty
Charleston, West Virginia USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:32 PM CST
sticking out tongue thanks for the laugh...
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BnaturAl
Sarnia, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:33 PM CST
some people make plans to jump, but back off when they approach the edge..


it isnt always personal. not very nice for you granted.
dunno
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Jan1305
(Moscow region temporarily), Murcia Spain
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:34 PM CST
Why does this seem to happen so often here?

Is it just a game for many people?

dunno
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mbcasey
North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:34 PM CST
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Maybe something came up and couldnt get the chance to tell you...wait for a couple of days and see if he gets a hold of you..if not you try and get a hold of him...may have been an emergency..i hope things work out ok..
I agree with Kissme. You have to make sure everything is ok with him before you can make a judgement.

I am sorry this happened to you!!
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nomindgames
Painesville, Ohio USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:35 PM CST
I agree there may have been a crisis and he couldn't call yet.If not he must get his kicks from head games,and enjoys hurting people.So sorry for you.Let us know what happened if anything and if he's still coming?We must be so careful with this cyberspace meeting people,but then it can be th same in real life,no show,no call date.
Try to focus on good things you hve right now.hug handshake snowman
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gatoraidkitty
Charleston, West Virginia USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:35 PM CST
it damn rude...not lead someone on...then just blow them off....
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gatoraidkitty
Charleston, West Virginia USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:45 PM CST
someone please enlighten me as to why anyone would do this?
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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:46 PM CST
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I agree with Kissme. You have to make sure everything is ok with him before you can make a judgement.

I am sorry this happened to you!!
hello mbcasey..how are you doing tonight?
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irishdoc157
norwich, Connecticut USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:56 PM CST
Been on both side of this issue - been stood up and wound up standing someone up (car trouble, cell trouble - too little time to explain) but if I can offer some insight - some people like the chase or build themselves up to what they cannot measure up to. Do not let this Cad's issue cloud yours - keep on that wining smile and try like the rest of us to make magic happen on CS

Doc
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gatoraidkitty
Charleston, West Virginia USA
Posted: Dec 23, 2007, 7:58 PM CST
thanks all...some comments have been helpful
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