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accident?
sorry unlikely

this is the age of technology

you know what i think pet

sadly sometimes people arent completely honest about whatEVER
who knows what it is?
something they feel insecure about at first so they fudge the facts then have to jump out b4 discovered

its been many years but ive done it

be glad it happened now
before you gave a dang about the potential of him
thats a place ive gotten caught up in when a guy
does something thats not okay
ooooh the potential

ugh
forget that-forgive yourself-move on

even if you think he's nice and has a believeable story-
maybe it was a sign?-
just keep swimming-lol

and for the men that read this and think im cold-oh well
its mature to have a bit of self care, protection and boundary

Chalk it up to experience and start all over again.

When it comes to men, why ask why?

thanks girls...ur right...it's his loss....i am one hell of a good woman, and someone will appreciate me......

i appreciate ya kitten

hey

your boat aint so bad
and i know you know what i mean

we arent in the same boat...
but close...


big smooch kitten
you better listen to us or i will

yes ma'am....

OMG!!!!!!!!!!! Unless he is lying in the hospital half dead...I wouldn't give him the pleasure of even speaking to him again...There isn't an exscuse that would be good enough for me....Block him from e-mail...phone and your life g/f!!!!!!!!

NEXT!!!!!!!!!!

thanks...love the deer pic

And of course in fairness......the whole thread can be flipped to the opposite sex...

yes indy

my input would have been EXACTLY THE SAME

in fact if youve read my post you see my own admission there

are you still worried that im not really a girl or what?

This crap happens all the time. I don't know why. I am guessing because they chicken out. We women can get away with being a pussy, but for the men....


I am kidding it's not right to do that to anyone but people do it.

That's been the attitude I've had for the most part when I've been stood up (which has been often)...at least after I get over being hurt...lol Every time it's happened it's made me wonder what's wrong with me...what is it about me that would cause them not to show....then I give myself a good shake and get angry and say it's not me it's them. There is no second chance if I'm stood up...especially in this day & age with cell phones....it only takes 2 minutes to think of the other person and give them a quick call.

I'm starting to wonder if this mystery person has been making his rounds.
I know of four girls here who are going through the same thing in varying degrees.
Think it could be a coincidence?
I'm beginning to wonder.

Not likely...there is a person who likes to come on here and romance lots of women using fake pics...He usually shows up as someone handsome that the women can't resist and then leaves a whole bunch of broken hearts in his wake...I suspect this was/is most likely him...Eddie strikes again...

k, apparently he was on line today...so no major accident or anything...he just stood me up or chickened out...

please asssit, should i mail him to let him know i think he's an @$$ of just let it go?

Let it go...he isn't worth the effort. I am sorry this happened

Make plans, just don't plan the outcome..

Listen to Ken, he is 100% correct..

Is doubtful he cares what you think. Do you really want to waste anymore energy on this?

I know these guys are telling you to forget it..and i think they are great guys..but...you wont have ur mind at ease until you really know what really happened..if me..i would try to find out..by phone..mail or text..just to know the real reason...but whatever you decide i hope for the best for you...

Sorry dear, but if the guy didn't have the balls to at least call and say he couldn't make it, he's not going to grow some in order to give an explanation on why he didn't.