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what to do now?

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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:36 AM CST
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Sorry dear, but if the guy didn't have the balls to at least call and say he couldn't make it, he's not going to grow some in order to give an explanation on why he didn't.
Dont be sorry we all have our opinions and she will have to do what is best for you..but for me if i was in that position i would always be wondering whyhug
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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:37 AM CST
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Dont be sorry we all have our opinions and she will have to do what is best for you..but for me if i was in that position i would always be wondering why
sorry i mean she will have to do what is best for her
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dazzling_dave
Waynesboro, Virginia USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:38 AM CST
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Dont be sorry we all have our opinions and she will have to do what is best for you..but for me if i was in that position i would always be wondering why
I would wonder myself. Experience tells me I will never get an answer, so it isn't worth my time trying to get one. hug
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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:40 AM CST
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I would wonder myself. Experience tells me I will never get an answer, so it isn't worth my time trying to get one.
I know and i quess i am crazy but it would be on my mind and would have to put it to easehug
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fireliter
Allen Park, Michigan USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:47 AM CST
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someone please enlighten me as to why anyone would do this?
this time of year family crisis and other such issues unfortunately will always have a higher priority over the initial meeting. Consider your thoughts if he blew off a family crisis of his to meet you, would you still be as receptive to his attentions?

It could even be a personal crisis (lets hope not) but wheather and family this time of year can always interrupt a otherwise excellent plan.
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:47 AM CST
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Sorry dear, but if the guy didn't have the balls to at least call and say he couldn't make it, he's not going to grow some in order to give an explanation on why he didn't.
thumbs up handshake
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spiceygamble
On my way abroad..., North Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:48 AM CST
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I know and i quess i am crazy but it would be on my mind and would have to put it to ease
I agree.
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gatoraidkitty
Charleston, West Virginia USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:49 AM CST
such conflicting opinions...dunno
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:49 AM CST
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sorry i mean she will have to do what is best for her
I bet a lot of us other "Old Farts" here would like to tell her what is best for her..grin

Out of pain comes laughter..


hug
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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:50 AM CST
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I agree.
Thanks i just quess us women cant give up that easily hug
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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:53 AM CST
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met this fella on CS, talked for a few months by phone and e-mail...he made plans to come see me this weekend...then did a no show...no call....no nothing....WTF? all the way to the day before he was so sweet and talking like he was excited....then that....again...WTF?
Men.. best not to try and figure them out.. also best to have low expectations smile cheers hug.. I have long since employed that strategy.. success rate slower, but at least less likely to be upset hug
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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:56 AM CST
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this time of year family crisis and other such issues unfortunately will always have a higher priority over the initial meeting. Consider your thoughts if he blew off a family crisis of his to meet you, would you still be as receptive to his attentions?

It could even be a personal crisis (lets hope not) but wheather and family this time of year can always interrupt a otherwise excellent plan.
I absolutely agree with you that this could be the case.. but I have have been in situations where something important has come up.. would still spend all of 30 seconds texting.. but then thats maybe just because I am a woman.. I appreciate ur point though hug
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inverphil
dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 11:56 AM CST
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met this fella on CS, talked for a few months by phone and e-mail...he made plans to come see me this weekend...then did a no show...no call....no nothing....WTF? all the way to the day before he was so sweet and talking like he was excited....then that....again...WTF?
His loss
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kissmedeeply
Asheville, North Carolina, North Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 12:01 PM CST
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met this fella on CS, talked for a few months by phone and e-mail...he made plans to come see me this weekend...then did a no show...no call....no nothing....WTF? all the way to the day before he was so sweet and talking like he was excited....then that....again...WTF?
All i can say is what ever you decide...you know best for urself..and i hope all works out for you..We all often wonder how people can do what they do and never know why..i dont think we will ever understand men/woman and why they made that decision..hug
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mbcasey
North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 12:01 PM CST
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such conflicting opinions...
Kitty...what do you want to do and what do you think you should do?
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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 12:01 PM CST
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k, apparently he was on line today...so no major accident or anything...he just stood me up or chickened out...

please asssit, should i mail him to let him know i think he's an @$$ of just let it go?
I know what I would do.... NASTY TESTIMONIAL hee hee (evil laugh :smile) devil
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mbcasey
North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 12:02 PM CST
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I know what I would do.... NASTY TESTIMONIAL hee hee (evil laugh :smile)
laugh rolling on the floor laughing

at least give him a 1 on the picture ratings...
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Poetic
Heidelberg, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 12:04 PM CST
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k, apparently he was on line today...so no major accident or anything...he just stood me up or chickened out...

please asssit, should i mail him to let him know i think he's an @$$ of just let it go?
I´m sorry for you gatoraidkitty,

let him go...it`s time now...dropping jaw

...some men have a midlifecrises and just want to test their market value...they reached what they want...be happy that it will not happened after the date...so it´s more easy to say good bye and will not hurt you to much...

...if he is still interested, he will come!
...he has to come!
...it´s up to him

a nice saying in Germany - free translated:

OTHER MOTHERS HAVE ALSO NICE SONS peace

don´t block yourself - nobody is it worth - nobody -

behind the next corner is standing your angel the only thing you have to do is:

open your eyes...
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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 12:05 PM CST
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at least give him a 1 on the picture ratings...
great idea.. but it won't show thats the only thing....u only see the 8,9 and 10s waving santa
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roseofsharon
Buggered if I know where...?!!, Hampshire, England UK
Posted: Dec 26, 2007, 12:06 PM CST
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Let it go...he isn't worth the effort. I am sorry this happened
I agree with Ken...... thumbs up Channel your energies into something or someone more positive and worthwhile!! hug cheers
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