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sounds much like the man I met on here

I hate to see someone be hurt like you have, but you seem to have lots of friends on CS that are here for you, don't give him the satisfaction of you leaving.

I really am sorry you had to go through something like that.. I truly am, I hope you will see all of the posts you have here from all the members that care... you don't have to leave...

Wish you would stay. I would want to be warned of the a hole.

Hiya.. please don't leave, by leaving u r letting this nut rob more from you... there are people who are 'just like that' unfortunately .. but thankfully not all are.. take some solice in knowing that you are the faithful loving trusting person and he is the git...I know which persons company I would prefer...

Don't let him rob u of your confidence either, I am sure you are the same wonderful, gorgeous woman u were before this 'incident' and you have ur beautiful kids... with all that?... who needs em eh?

All Woman..

I know who you mean.. and I know what he did.. (to you and at LEAST two others)..

He strung you all along.. and I don't care if he reads this.. *insert a lot of foul language* but I don't want to get banned.


IFFFFFFFF you can still read this.. don't leave.. stay. HE is the D*ckhead.. not you.

If you leave ....he wins...dont give that sorry S.O.B the satisfaction..........

I know of 1 other woman who left here on Friday due to receiving 35+ nasty e-mails from someone.

Never let someone drive you from this place it makes them feel that they've won something.

Exactly

I'm ONLY leaving if I get banned.. I wouldn't ever let someone push me out.. or make me want to leave.

I'll do it when *I* want.

Wish I knew who the D*head was, I don't want to waste my time with bs!

Seriously everyone, you realize you're only hearing one side of a story here.

As for my experiences with this site, I had a really nice person contact me, and we shared several dozen messages. We also talked on the phone a lot. I had droped my internet to save up money. I live alone and my bills range about 1000 dollars a month. So for this person I started working more to save money, and I cut my expenses like the internet. We were planning on meeting and I wanted to get my car fixed and several other things in my life I needed to resolved before getting to serious with this person. I also needed to cut back on the long distance calls to her, but I didn't stop them completely. I was completely honest with them about everything, and they seemed to be as well. After about 3 weeks, she decided to spring new information on me. She said she didn't tell me earlier because she wasn't sure how I would react. She was married, and had lied about a few other sensitive things that I won't mention. I had a lot of compassion for her, but there was never any reason to misslead me.
She stoped calling me because she too needed to save money.

She then became very untrustworthy of me, for some reason I have no idea. I can only assume the less we were talking made her doubt things. She signed up here at the site as other members and contacted me. I told these people that I was involved with someone else, but I also let them know that she wasn't ever making any effort to contact me anymore, and that her phone was always busy.

Well, she gave me hell because I messaged them. Which was really her. So I tried for a short time to explain everything, but there comes a time to just drop it, and she wouldn't. She could have just let things be, and she could have made a effort to lead the relationship in a productive direction, but that is not what she did. I stopped calling her because she told me to. I respected that. Then she started sending me messages again. At my workplace we have internet so I still could check for her messages. She was just complaining at me and telling me how I didn't care. What she fails to understand is, I had allready given her the benefit of the doubt a dozen times. My God she is married. I should have dropped her then, but I continued to talk with her. I wanted to find an open minded person, and this person was not open minded, more like one track minded. She was always worring about someone cheating on her, and I didn't want to get into that kind of relationship. I am sure I hurt her feelings, but I have to think of my own too. After a few more of those hateful messages I blocked her.
Then she signed up as someone else, so I blocked them too. Now this person has my phone number, but has yet to call me. I really wouldn't mind talking to her if she wasn't getting so mental.

This may or maynot relate to the starting post, but I want to make clear, that you are very shallow if you only hear one side of the story.
I don't want anyones pitty here, because all you have is my word to go on and thats just not fair.

After a while I left this site too, because I was reading about similar things happening to others, both men and women.
I wasn't giving up on women, but I took time away from trying to find anyone.

So far I have only had contact with one person from this site, I hope in the future things will be better. And I don't hold anything against her, everyone can change. I just hope she has learned from her experience, to not be so untrustworthy.

As for all womens post I hope she too has better luck. The best advice I can give to people is try to have an open mind and don't jump the gun on what you think until you have proof. If you do get that proof then why are you hurting you should be relieved.

that's summs it up!

Well, I think of it this way, anyone to believe rumors (if he tells people you're a stalker, and they believe it) then they aren't worth your time either.