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I believe in Karma, too, Riya.

Definitely Forgive....but don't forget so that they may not pull the wool over your eyes again.

What I do is I chalk everything up to life experience as a lesson learned.

Only problem with that is...
they might be doing it to someone else.

Tough call.

I cant see someone do it to you ...but people are people ..

I argee with you dcj Karma can be such a bitch

You can if you know where to look.
Sometimes things are right in front of our eyes the whole time.

People are people but good people are rare.

i'm a great believer in "what goes around, comes around" a.k.a. karma. i also believe in "let go & let GOD" if you seek revenge, then you are trying to do GOD's job. IMO one must forgive in order to let go of the hurt. i know ppl say "forgive & forget" to me the easy part is forgiving, forgetting is not so easy. i think we need to remember as a form of self-protection against future hurts.

I'm in the Karma camp.

if you get played..

move on ..

live your life..

no one can live it but you....

you can only offer...

to give a part of you........

I say take it like a man or woman and move on without so much drama
JMO

I've never come across this personally...all the women I've been close to have been wonderful people and have only wanted to make me happy.

It seems, predominantly, it's a male type of behaviour and, as pointed out in an above comment, seems rooted in an ego feulled attitude towards female approval and adoration.

What would I do if it happened to me?

Forgive and do my best to forget. Certainly, my next partner should not have to suffer from any fears I have due to bad former experiences.

Not easy!

That is true, Spicey, but if we become suspicious of everyone then where would we be in this world. Yes, people are people, but it is how we choose to view them that makes us who they are and we are.

I dont understand the veiled thinking on part of the one who causes the hurt.

Why cant we just say.. i dont know give me time.. or say i am not sure lets see or even i am not in to long term.

Makes it easy for the other one instead of the hurt and drama.

I'm all for karma and i know it happens....

but before the logics kick in and i realize karma will get em in the end....i feel a lil revengeful, i dont acted on it...but it makes me feel better somehow...and i do forgive in time, but i dont forget as easy.

thats just my honest thoughts...

Moving on is the easy part.
Knowing a hurtful one is making rounds, person to person... it takes a cold soul to not feel that effect.
I worry for the next person.

Real kind thoughts

Very well put, Me too.

Thank you