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I won't really say that i know a lot about what goes on here amongst the people but i really dont care 'cos i don't want to know.
I sympathise with all the ladies that have been hurt here one way or the other, genuinely.
Without reference to these ladies, i would also like to say guys should be careful how they run other guys down because they believe someone's been hurt by a guy on cs. No one was there personally to see what happened and that lady that you take sides with might just be the architect of the predicament that has befallen her. Just because she comes crying to the guys in the lounge first does not mean she is innocent and the guy just played with her heart and emotions, ran her down and dumped her, don't forget that the guy's not saying anything.
I am talking from personal experience here on cs and you can imagine a situation where what you are told before getting to meet isn't what you find when you eventually meet ...... and she just wants youto overlook that ! Most ladies posing on here as saints have actually got terrible attitudes that you can't live with for a minute. At least i know one for sure and she is popular.
People, as much as you open your hearts, open your eyes too and be non-biased in your judgements.

Well said...I agree with you.

I alway say, even in my own very recent encounter, there are three sides to every story. His, hers, and the truth!! That's not saying anyone lied! Each has their own perception of a situation

I hope Im not letting the side down, but so do I.

It's true of both sexs.Not only on CS.

Yep, makes no difference if we admit it, we all play our part...

The old saying, there is his side, her side and someplace in the middle is the truth...

Now, if I could just find some "hottie" to try and play me...

True !! Its holds good for both.

See what age does. We have the experience and knowledge, and we still want to play with fire!

at least we won't feel bad when he returns to cs teary-eyed....

absolutely

i dont like those put the blame on someone type of threads, i know ppl get hurt, but i dont like ti when its shouted from the rooftops, cos there is always several sides to a story

yeah and i think all the name-calling will only be justified if all the several parts of the story were heard. So i think it is better to console your friends and don't call anybody names as you might only ever know the story fromthe one part.
Like one of the older gentlemen on cs once said, u never regret what u never said.

several sides definitely, i wont be having a problem with this if they both shout fromthe roooftops.
one sided judgement to retain oneself in anothers good books just isn't right.

I'm not sure either gender has cornered the market on integrity.


Best wishes to anyone searching regardless!

Integrity is not gender ruled. It is a combination of heart, soul, maturity, and forethought.

well ......... i hope if it was me in that situation, i would maintain a dignified silence

name calling is never a good idea

dignified silence is the best option. You get to save whatever dignity and self-confidence you have left.

Oye!!! I am an angel!!!

I only get "an attitutde" when people talk utter crap (in my opinion of course), and even then I often can't be bothered to get drawn an argument/dicussion about it . I am usually a nice person unless someone REALLY REALLY pisses me off...

I'm not even gonna enter into who dumped whom and why ....

Will you so kindly not throw all the women in the same "pot" same applies for men ...

If i were ever to be there which i hope not i wouldnt utter it out to peopel on a public forum.. i wouldnt be able to speak about it in fact.

Judgments? Bring 'em on. Will I care? Hell no. Why should I let it get to me? Do any of these vague profiles on the net even really know me? I am solely here for entertainment purposes, not like I get as sucked into it as most LOL A lot of the time when strangers take a shot, it actually makes me laugh, them being so off base.