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I agree with you on this... there are so many things that people do to cause their own problems...I am not saying that I am perfect....cause lord knows I am not....I am just saying that airing your dirty laundry for all to see is never a good thing...

best to keep things to your self...if you have been hurt...don't go out and make the person out to be a big monster...they could be the "ONE" for the next person that encounters them....


JMO

of course it does, except that the men keep quiet about their own encounters which is the best thing to do in a situation like that. I read a thread where something like that happened to Ulimaora (hope i got that right). she didn't try to get pity out of it thus bashing the guy involved, she just came and talked about it as it was, not unbalancing anyones judgement in the process, going through what she went through and not coming out as bitter as she would have, i would say the guy who stood her up is the looser ...... but of course, thats just my opinion.