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Ursilla, it's become more than apparent to me that much is shared behind the scenes...comments made in an off hand way...references to 'read your mail' when discussing a certain 'dodgy' situation...kinda makes sense to think there must be a considerable network goin' on.

The term 'thick as theives' has also been mentioned to me by one man...and a good man at that!

And yes, on your comment as to men having nothing to fear if they're decent, I did indeed say the very same thing in my original post.

very good point ...


and lets say that involved means oh .... having met in person and now giggling at each other after .... say boobage discovery? or does simple emailing fall into the 'involved' catagory ...

Better yet, I like it when women email me advising me to watch out for "so n' so"...cuz she's a "b-tch".

Well...it seems to be that there are SOME who interpret the thousands or emails (give or take a few hundred), web cam, phone calls etc etc, as actually meaning they are now officially a "couple" (the "meeting" has yet to occur however).....

But as we all know "distance" has a way of making you still feel "single" on those lonely lonely nights...lets just say that after a few drinks...and longing for your new significant other...your conscience goes to "war" with your heart....and before you know it....several emails have gone off to "others" that had you not been "involved", you may have contacted...


Make sense??

I don't can form my own opinions of others

do you REALLY get mail like that?
thats just sad...


none of my 'network' act like that


i love some of the women ive gotten to know here
they are indispensible
and that is in regard to much more than cs man advice

oh
and good morn stalker-i mean indy
thot id take a turn

happy christmas all
im so excited!!

hi constanza

happy jesus' birthday!

kiss the ol neighborhood for me

hazelhurst n vanowens prolly central enuf

Nope I don't belong to any background cliques such as this..

I have seen how some women vote each other down in the photo ratings. Also, I have witnessed bad backstabbing on here between some of the women

Also, I have had guys forward me messages containing hateful things about me that have been sent to them by a couple of women on here

hi zella!

life goes on eh?

all is good in the end
for the wise who can make use of it...


bigkisssweetie

quite surprising !!

Ireserve my opinion for close friends. Then too its just my opinion. They are free to do what they like. But No NETWORK here to be clear.

Merry Christmas to you

Hi Mindffull

Of course life goes on as long as we are wise and make good use of it as you say.

Too much time in hands perhaps ??

Oh, this happened to me quite a few months ago as I've been a member here for 2 years now.

I do have a few close friends on here, just no big network thing where we gossip about men.

Thanks

Luckily, I have a thick skin and never let silliness like that get to me

Well I'm not part of any background cliques either but there are a handful of sweet ladies who I can write to with trust and confidence if I've missed anything, which is often the case because I often go away for long periods.

I would question the behaviour of the guys forwarding messages though, isn't that equally as bad? Does that make you part of a male clique?

I am surprised though that women feel the need to backstab and I'm sorry that you have been the victim of it.

what an eye opener!!!

How naive I am at times...

Good I am always using templates so all get the same message

haha

I"ve been on here a couple of years myself....the "network" as I know it has been women who have "connected" as friends...some have even come to visit and stay with me...

Talk about men?...Really.....are these men so sure that is what our conversations are based around....them?

Bits and pieces may come out about some men on here, but i don't think its as "espionage" as the men are making it out to be