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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 6:34 PM CST
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WRONG THREAD SORRY LOL
I'm terrified of any lite beer (the taste warps my tongue), so I can relate, Super.handshake
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kevduf
Columbia, Missouri USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 6:34 PM CST
I'm always had a phobia of Europeans....they frighten me. grin laugh
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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 6:36 PM CST
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Hot Wings & Bud lite
I must admit, lite beers do terrify me (they warp my tongue in mind-bending ways).blues
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OverTheWindow
Chicago, Paris, Marseille, Illinois USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 6:36 PM CST
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I'm always had a phobia of Europeans....they frighten me.
very mad
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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 6:37 PM CST
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No phobias, but not too keen on dwarfs...
I have developed something of a phobia for Norwegian jokes...uh oh!
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Ambrose2007
Badger, South Dakota USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 6:37 PM CST
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Wait a minute, OTW, aren't you a nice domestic Chicagoan??confused
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ChillinBama
Decatur USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 6:38 PM CST
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Phobias. Fears.
What are you afraid of? I had a very interesting conversation this evening with a friend (a man) who is a commitment-phobe. Every woman he has a relationship with is in a relationship that is almost destined to die a rather sad and painful death because, in his own words, he can only go so far and then he freezes up and starts to drive her away (whoever the "her" is). In this case, the "her" is a good friend of mine, and so is he. She loves him. He loves her. Yet he is starting to do things that will surely sabotage their relationship. And he recognizes this as a pattern within himself that he says he doesn't like but yet cannot rid himself of. So, I wonder....do we have fears (phobias) that we truly cannot escape, or are there things that we fear and yet we find comfort in them as well? Are our fears so strong that we cannot rid ourselves of them, or do we simply embrace our fears? (i.e., we do not WANT to do something, so we claim to be afraid of it?) Is it easier or better to simply take our phobias and adapt our lives around them, or should we not try to fight them? I ask this question as one who has many fears of my own (none of which I shall try to conquer), but they do not involve human interaction or love or commitment. I am afraid of dentists, roller coasters, snakes, heights, and a few other things, but nothing scares me about dealing with men. I wonder, I am perplexed at times, I doubt some things, I question myself, etc....but I am not scared. What about you? Do you fear interaction with men/women (beyond the superficial or the easy lay)? Are you phobic? What do you fear?
Spiders and A women with my credit card
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kevduf
Columbia, Missouri USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 6:38 PM CST
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OverTheWindow
Chicago, Paris, Marseille, Illinois USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 6:46 PM CST
sticking out tongue batting eyelashes
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constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 6:47 PM CST
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No phobias, but not too keen on dwarfs...
Come to think of it, I fear clowns laugh and masks
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OverTheWindow
Chicago, Paris, Marseille, Illinois USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 6:47 PM CST
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Wait a minute, OTW, aren't you a nice domestic Chicagoan??
But sooooo French nativeyay peace
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Scottishlass
Knoxville, Tennessee USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 9:29 PM CST
ever since i saw the movie jaws i am terrified of swimming in the ocean, i don't mind being on a boat in the ocean but i WILL NOT go in the water.
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AutumR
over looking a meadow, Louth Ireland
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 9:36 PM CST
~~~I was afraid of escalators but i forced myself beyond it applause
Still have an issue with R-a-t-s, grrrooooosssss!!!
As for men......no phobiasgrin
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ooby_dooby
Ashland, Virginia USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 10:31 PM CST
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~~~I was afraid of escalators but i forced myself beyond it
Still have an issue with R-a-t-s, grrrooooosssss!!!
As for men......no phobias
I have no fears but women who hang upside down like vampires make me a little nervous.laugh

Just kidding hug
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 11:07 PM CST
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i'm the opposite, can fly but deathly afraid of heights, actually used to fly a small plane...
actually used to fly a small plane...

Me too, and a bigger one. Joined the "mile high" club...devil

rolling on the floor laughing



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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 11:09 PM CST
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But sooooo French native
HHHMMMMM!!!!!! French!!!!!!!!!grin

devil
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 11:12 PM CST
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Airplanes...never been on one..Afraid of them crashing
I used to jump out of planes. It wasn't the fall that hurt, but damn, that sudden stop!!D'oh!

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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Dec 27, 2007, 11:12 PM CST
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ever since i saw the movie jaws i am terrified of swimming in the ocean, i don't mind being on a boat in the ocean but i WILL NOT go in the water.
Oh yeah I forgot about that one...uh oh! I'm the same...I was in Florida once and the only thing that touched the ocean was my baby toe!!!!!!!

rolling eyes Thank God for jaws... it created a whole generation of ocean chickens!!!!!!D'oh! laugh
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alex_192
sarasota USA
Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 1:11 PM CST
jlb684 wrote:
Phobias. Fears.
What are you afraid of? I had a very interesting conversation this evening with a friend (a man) who is a commitment-phobe. Every woman he has a relationship with is in a relationship that is almost destined to die a rather sad and painful death because, in his own words, he can only go so far and then he freezes up and starts to drive her away (whoever the "her" is). In this case, the "her" is a good friend of mine, and so is he. She loves him. He loves her. Yet he is starting to do things that will surely sabotage their relationship. And he recognizes this as a pattern within himself that he says he doesn't like but yet cannot rid himself of. So, I wonder....do we have fears (phobias) that we truly cannot escape, or are there things that we fear and yet we find comfort in them as well? Are our fears so strong that we cannot rid ourselves of them, or do we simply embrace our fears? (i.e., we do not WANT to do something, so we claim to be afraid of it?) Is it easier or better to simply take our phobias and adapt our lives around them, or should we not try to fight them? I ask this question as one who has many fears of my own (none of which I shall try to conquer), but they do not involve human interaction or love or commitment. I am afraid of dentists, roller coasters, snakes, heights, and a few other things, but nothing scares me about dealing with men. I wonder, I am perplexed at times, I doubt some things, I question myself, etc....but I am not scared. What about you? Do you fear interaction with men/women (beyond the superficial or the easy lay)? Are you phobic? What do you fear?


i avoid geting involved
i am scared to dead to fall in love
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