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I think we should stop talking about cliques and should wallpaper the spare room instead!

lol!

Are you done yet???

its totally a clique, always has been. Most people here ignore me too

I've actually changed my mind since I posted on this thread..

is that spare room decorated yet

if not oslo I love your threads

and who feels ignored

So is it a clique or not?

I still just want to click. I would rather work on clicking with people then cliqueing. I read a post by fallingman today and he said if we all treat each other with courtesy it would be a nicer place. I admire his attitude.

no it's not, just stick with the forums and keep posting, thats what I do

Live and let live......I felt like that one time......dont worry you'll soon get over it....

Dont take it personally babe......it's just that some people have the time to be on here 24/7 while others have things to be getting along with.....

Wow is this place a clique?


Yes, these people are awful

certainly get's talked about enough

One doesn't always get responses on threads.

Some threads start off by discussions going on, they take turns to other directions/.

If one is no longer interested, one moves on to another.

Sometimes i get responses left right and centre, others i am totally ignored. So?

If there's something on my mind, I post. If I get respnses, then we post again. If I don't, I don't, and the post slowly drifts to the bottom of the list and disappears.

End of stroy. Got nothing to do with cliques I think....

i complety agree sometimes i get a

response sometimes i don't, also think down to individuals to talk to others as in real life, takes time

to get to know people.

just kidding, of course...

get ignored here as much as I do in real life....doesnt stop me posting....

well there are cliques but they shift b a breeze of gossip that blows by

so what?
such is life

there are levels of relationships
know on sight-a nod-maybe not their name

know better shake hands and say hi when see each other

know and pretend you dont see them


colleagues
acquaintances
friends
family
extended family

personally i cant get involved emotionally
respond to the same degree to relative strangers
as i would someone i know
but we all get annoyed and pop off at one another
now and again...and life goes on

i would like to clarify the statement made by the lioness however

'oldtimers'-
well some were here "before" and in early 05
and have since left and come back (reincarnated)
so the history of the posts may not reflect a members' time here

just a few of the people that were so welcoming to me
are still here... and some, we still only have
a passing pleasantry for each other and thats ok
i dont need everyone to like me
or pay attention to me
here, work, church, a party-wherever

i was like that -i couldnt keep it up-it almost killed me

this post is purely off the top of my head so dot get pissy tampa
but of course you may F off if you like
i find this practice helps me to be a bit more relaxed

no, really, in large part we are

<-----me and her are in our own clique and your not joining so there