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I don't even know anymore...

That's the sad part...

"know", what ?

Present...future...so I guess I'm left at the crossroads...Been here god knows how many time...I don't like it much!!!!!!

Stay where you are, I'll pick you up in 20 minutes.

It leaves you in the now Paws ... the only time you truely have.

dont waste it because you know you can't get it back. don't waste your now.

Thanx cause it's cold here!!!!!!!!!

~~~I second that one...

2007 was the worst ever, don't want think about the fact it could ALWAYS be worse.

But I plan to smile no matter what!!!!

In a black hole that always was ???

The more you feed it the more it wil ask ..

Life is but a puzzle ... ermm.. ot many wake to the realisation that itis one. Some try to solve it all their life , many treat it like the wallet in their pocket and some just liv eit cos there is no better way to treat it !!

We come , we go without an inkling of effort on our own part but yet we strive to touch the skies and buy the silver sheen .

Simple it is for what its worth , theres nothing thats permanent not even our memories , definitely not the next door girl nor the green paper in our swiss accounts ... just to realise this one takes a life time or more that we run a chase which doesnt exist. Its what we perceive we are following .. " A Mirage "

In a heap.......

hello i am jb i was passin gby and saw ur page and it sound soo good for one to get to knoe u if u dont mind me asking

Now I know why we get along so well...

My New Year typically is reserved for quiet introspection.

Yesterday, my computer crashed, and I mean, REALLY crashed. Perpetual Blue Screen of Death. Would not operate in safe mode, would not run a CD, would not do anything. No restore points, no repair mode.

It took nearly all day of every trick I could think of, but, as you can see, I managed to revive it. Unfortunately, it required a wholesale lobotomy. My hobby for the day will be restoring nearly everything I once had. Software, drivers, bookmarks, etc.

Or not. On a positive note, it's operating better than ever.

So perhaps there is a parallel to life here. Maybe it is time to discard notions or thoughts I don't need in this New Year. Or something like that.

And no, I'm not suggesting I get a lobotomy.

"Maybe it is time to discard notions or thoughts I don't need in this New Year"

That is exactly what I need to do Robert. Thanks for saying it so well, it sunk through my thick skull...

Glad to be of service.

The best gift one can give oneself .

Damn each those options sound like full time jobs

I do see the validity in what you say, however so I've become a seasonal worker to fulfill both objectives

I've done a few,but once ina while,it's just so much funner to take everybody else's INVENTORY.

As I was growing up I was always assured of a News Years day meal of plain bean soup or potato soup,

When I finally asked "Why we had to eat that stuff?" .My dad explained, this is a poor mans meal. the least expensive meal a family can have. and by enjoying this meal on this day we are assured that the new year will bring about a better life... It seemed to work for my dad and I guess if its good enough of a ritual for him its damn good enough for me.
however i have changed/embellished the recipe on both soups

Is it not true that most stand with one foot in yesterday and one foot in tomorrow and we piss all over today? That we have no cluse as to how to live in the present? Today is a gift, and that is why it is called the "present"...