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its been 5yrs and still cant breath when i think of it it something i beleave will never go away because of the fealings i had for her but im stronger and smarter now and im trying to find that one girl who wiil make me feal good again inside you no that spark of exsitement cant wait to talk to

It will go away.. sometimes it just takes longer than other. You know too.. you are a part of why it is taking so long.. you are allowing it to keep you in this place where it still hurts you. You need to find some kind of peace with it all.. put it down.. look forward.. and not back... You have ALLLL the rest of your life ahead of you.. don't waste your time looking back.

(I'm speaking from experience.. im not lecturing you)

If a person is going to cheat while you are off serving your Country, they care only about themself. and wont think twice about doing it again. But I will go further here, there are laws against adultry, it is a shame they are not enforced.
like the movie scarlet letter. would be great if cheaters were branded in a clearly visible place so everyone knows.
So many people have no shame at all.
myself.. wouldn't be any discussion, if she is going to cheat.. she better already have her stuff packed and out.

I loved it on the news a long while back when a woman caught her husband cheating.. she scattered his cloths all over the lawn and his fishing boat in the front of the house she painted "cheater" all over it!

This would be a great clause to put into a prenup!
if either one cheats... you get nothing!!!
Including the kids if there are any.

If someone betrayed me that would be it, I dont have enough time in my life to put up with losers

Bro.. very inhealthy way of looking at it!
You should not start another relationship until you feel good about being you..
if you still have that much of an issue you need to get some outside help.

So- do you think it might stop a few from cheating if they knew that they would loose everything,, house, car, kids, all furniture, and so on?
pluss no kind of support.. nothing but their cloths!?

if not, lets make it even tougher!
if caught cheating.. the guy gets casterated and women get total breast removal with a law that no Dr can later correct it.

Give people every good reason to stop and think real hard before cheating!

depend on how bad? not a big deal just forgive once..

Speaking from personal experience, once the trust is gone there is no getting it back. I tried once and wasted 5 years of my life.

If someone were to betray me, I would have to end it then and there, no wasting any more time..

JMHO..

There was a woman in the UK a while back.. who found out her husband was cheating..

they were pretty rich.. he was a big wine buff.. and had a huge 'collection' of very expensive bottles..

She took it out.. and placed it on the doorsteps of all the neighbourhood houses..

me too!... I wasted so many years.. 'pretending'

Idiot that I am ..

I wouldn't waste a MOMENT again.. you wouldn't see me for dust.

you say that with a smile

my opinion too,once they do it they will do it again,but only in my opinion and that is all that matters in my opinion

i believe in the sanctity of marriage as an institution (how old fashioned am i!) so if i were married to the guy i'd forgive him the first time... if he were my bf ...not so much!