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Damn, you really are a softy, my friend!!

comunists invented love to not pay for sex

Not without permission. That goes for sleep sex too.

I don't think anybody could just say no, and that's that, no argument. There are situations where it's perfectly possible to love someone yet have sex with somebody else.

Sometimes, particularly in a long relationship/marriage, love and making love gets lost in all the day to day dramas, and being human we need a little loving from time to time. I'm not saying that people actively go looking for it, unless you are a serial philanderer, it can often happen accidentally when you are at a low point. I would go further and say that it may not always be just about sex but to have a feeling of intimacy with somebody and a confidence boost.

I have read of people with partners who sadly are unable to make love for a number of reasons and such are their physical needs, they have to find that satisfaction elsewhere. It doesn't mean they do not love their partner and sometimes they have come to a mutual agreement about it.

If sex is not important to you then all is well, do not judge people for whom it is important and try to recognise the difference between, as I said, serial philanderers and others.

I could not... would not... absolutely not... ever cheat on someone I am in love with...

I think if you are thinking of having sex with someone else whilst in a relationship/Marriage,there isnt a relationship there to begin with. Therefore you should leave then have the sex... I think its just respectful to do that.

no

No, because it would also be betraying myself and what I'm feeling.

Nope, not me. I get completely involved with the person I'm with. Hmmm, maybe that's my problem.

when i'm in love with someone.. its like other men don't exist... I don't even admire them from afar... as Mark said.. cripplingly monogamous...

Me too..

Monogamy is practically my religion.. (long before I was ever even cheated on - not 'because' I was)..

I am ragingly passionate and deadly serious about it.

Wow. You all are amazing. Such morals.

Good to see CS is like a bible camp..

I f someone goes outside the relationship for whatever contrived reason. the last thing thats on their mind is respecting the relationship partner they freely have chosen.

Well not for me.. I'm an Atheist

Yup

No.

I have certainly gone "Nice!" in my mind a couple of times, but that's the whole point of commitment and love for me. You admire the flowers but you don't have to pick them.

This is a bad subject for me - because if you are the one on the other end well lets just say I do not understand why anyone would want to disrespect, lie & cheat on someone they say they love.

Isn't respect, being honest & truthful all apart of the word Love, don't all these plus alot more like communication, compassion, being supportive of one another and more make up the word Love?

Maybe I am the one that don't understand the words Love and Commitment

Nope..Never

I agree with Aries.. If I am in love with someone.. I just don't even *SEE* anyone else.

It's like tunnel vision for me