I dont know what to think about

shipoker55
St. Petersburg, Florida USA

Posted: Jan 4, 2008, 9:48 AM CST

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my new husband of 3 weeks going out to have a drink and dance after his bowling night. Why wouldnt he call and tell me or ask me to go? He said it was just one drink but was stupid and he was sorry.. I am so hurt. What do you think?

Keep a close watch!! That all! After three weeks...I would still be home...not with "the boys"

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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jan 4, 2008, 9:49 AM CST

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I sure hope that women or men believe all that bunk on from TV

"In the words of Dr. Phil..."The best indicator of future behaviour is past behaviour"!!!!!!!

Dr.Phil picks his "clients" like Springer pick his.

Extremely dysfunctional people.

By no way reveal the the actions/sentiments of common everyday folk or relationships.

Thats why its called a "show" for entertainment purposes only.

Walk away from the TV... these so called "gurus of happiness and advice" are only charlatans who only seek a easy paycheck and ratings.

Hey I agree with that...or I wouldn't be saying it...My experince comes from life...NOT Dr. Phil...I just happen to agree with his quote!!!!!!

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nelly23
isle of man, Isle of Man, England UK

Posted: Jan 4, 2008, 9:50 AM CST

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If you are married, why are you on a singles meeting singles website with a profile that says you are seeking men?

I understand you may have made some friends here while you were single, but you are not single anymore. Maybe you should get your friends email addresses to keep contact and consider removing your profile.

It's a bit of a double standard (not to mention ironic) to complain about your husband having a beer with the guys, while you're a married woman on a singles site.

why should she give up her friends and come away from the site. you can have male and female friends . it dont mean your cheating.

if she was going to do that i dont think she would say she was married at all do you?

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bubbles69
Inverness, Highland, Scotland UK

Posted: Jan 4, 2008, 9:51 AM CST

Did you get married or were you joined at the hip by surgery. Try talking and trusting.

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langleygirl
Langley, British Columbia Canada

Posted: Jan 4, 2008, 9:54 AM CST

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my new husband of 3 weeks going out to have a drink and dance after his bowling night. Why wouldnt he call and tell me or ask me to go? He said it was just one drink but was stupid and he was sorry.. I am so hurt. What do you think?

Lets be honest and say that you seem "surprised" and "shocked" that you NEW husband is acting this way ........ truth is that you barely know this man who you decided to marry after such a short time.

Stop being surprised and be honest with yourself and him ....... did you make the right decision? If so - then start spending some time getting to know each other.

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judd28
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jan 4, 2008, 9:58 AM CST

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If you are married, why are you on a singles meeting singles website with a profile that says you are seeking men?

I understand you may have made some friends here while you were single, but you are not single anymore. Maybe you should get your friends email addresses to keep contact and consider removing your profile.

It's a bit of a double standard (not to mention ironic) to complain about your husband having a beer with the guys, while you're a married woman on a singles site.

her profile states she has met her match and is here for friends...which is honest and has to be respected

unlike married people on a singles site,

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Fallingman
dublin, Dublin Ireland

Posted: Jan 4, 2008, 9:58 AM CST

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Hun your relationship is so new..so many things will be going through ur mind all kind of emotions..just be honest and tell him how you feel about it..just let him know next time you would appreciate a call if he wanted to do something or wouldnt be home soon...Good luck hun...Dont worry hun...men dont think as much as we do..lol..

Some of us think occasionally.......perhaps by accident but it is definitely a thought!

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wikked
Ajax, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jan 4, 2008, 10:05 AM CST

I think there is a lot of great advice from the women on here...lots of perspective...

Its hard to jump into "married" life when one has been single for a period of time...just not used to having to answer for your decisions...but does not mean you are doing anything wrong.

His friends may have egged him on, making sure he hadn't gotten "P-whipped" by getting married...

I think you should let him know how you feel...let him know what you would have found more acceptable, come to a compromise as to how this situation would be dealt with in the future if it should arise...then drop it and move on...

Good Luck...and accpet his apology...

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