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How comfortable are u being single?

Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 9:56 AM CST
sticking out tongue lol I love being single.But I keep my planner handy do have one for the week and weekend,I call them my flavors of the week.rolling on the floor laughing
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Misfitboxer
Shawnee, Ok, Oklahoma USA
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 9:56 AM CST
lol I left out a con! Some people aren't into CS and just think, if EVERYONE were into casual sex... all those skanky people sleeping with others and all lol that increases the chances of catching and STD 1000% if you just sleep with 3 people who have slept with 3 people, which have slept with 3 people and so on... lol so if everyone goes for CS then it's be like 25 slept with 25 big numbers. Sorry had to say it! I'm going to school to become a Doc so it's one of those factors you look at.
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FishingMTgirl
Big Sky, Montana USA
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 9:57 AM CST
I am comfortable with being single. But I have also come to a point in my life that I am ready for a relationship.......the right relationship. I have love all around me from my kids to my animals etc... but who am I fooling if I said, I love the fact that I have the bed to myself with no one snoring? Fact still remains, there is nothing like a positive, loving relationship to go to bed, watch a movie.......not speaking of sex here, thats another thread LOL.......anyways to be able for two people to share and trust is a wonderful thing
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breath
Small town, Virginia USA
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 9:59 AM CST
I'm quite comfortable.
Although, been thinking about getting a new seat in my chair soon. laugh

As for living alone, being single...
For THIRTY YEARS I always had one or more child under the age of 10 living with me. (By choice, and I loved it. Yeah, I'm a nut, haha.)
The past 5 years, I've been 'retired'... living alone... and this is GREAT!

A few men thrown in there during those 30 years.
They make me repeat... "5 years of living alone... and this is GREAT!".

I'd love to have a man to love, though.
A perfect solution would be a dwelling in which we each have our own areas and we meet in the middle to share, to help, to love, to care.
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~breath
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Detente
North West, England UK
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:00 AM CST
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I am comfortable with being single. But I have also come to a point in my life that I am ready for a relationship.......the right relationship. I have love all around me from my kids to my animals etc... but who am I fooling if I said, I love the fact that I have the bed to myself with no one snoring? Fact still remains, there is nothing like a positive, loving relationship to go to bed, watch a movie.......not speaking of sex here, thats another thread LOL.......anyways to be able for two people to share and trust is a wonderful thing
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Misfitboxer
Shawnee, Ok, Oklahoma USA
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:04 AM CST
lol sorry about my posts guys, I've had a little too much caffeine and too little sleep!
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Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:07 AM CST
Perfectly self-sufficient, and have the patience to wait forever to finally meet that ONE special person, with who I will not have to give up my hobbies, travels, get-togethers with friends and like-minded people, etc. Where I'd still be able to "do what I want", "connect with people", "spend my money how I like", etc, and he would, of course, do likewise, and still we'd have lots of fun together. I'd hope that whoever it is, becomes one of my best buddies, just a lot more special buddy (one that doesn't call you and say "sorry, can we go out some other time, 'cos my boyfriend just called and I can't go with you today"). Since I am rather considerate anyway, it shouldn't be difficult to let the other person know about my plans so that they are not worried or hurt, or explain why I do things the way I do them, if need be.

And definitely, like others here have stated, I'd rather be alone than in bad company. head banger
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Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:09 AM CST
I don't like being single. sigh
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breath
Small town, Virginia USA
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:22 AM CST
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Perfectly self-sufficient, and have the patience to wait forever to finally meet that ONE special person, with who I will not have to give up my hobbies, travels, get-togethers with friends and like-minded people, etc. Where I'd still be able to "do what I want", "connect with people", "spend my money how I like", etc, and he would, of course, do likewise, and still we'd have lots of fun together. I'd hope that whoever it is, becomes one of my best buddies, just a lot more special buddy (one that doesn't call you and say "sorry, can we go out some other time, 'cos my boyfriend just called and I can't go with you today"). Since I am rather considerate anyway, it shouldn't be difficult to let the other person know about my plans so that they are not worried or hurt, or explain why I do things the way I do them, if need be.

And definitely, like others here have stated, I'd rather be alone than in bad company.
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omans02
Antwerpen Belgium
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:23 AM CST
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I don't like being single.
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mbcasey
North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:25 AM CST
I am with Agman...I don't like it.

But being single has some advantages. A lonely heart has none...
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JerichoHale
Cavan Ireland
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:36 AM CST
I am used to it now but get lonely from time to time. Its nice to have a girl to cuddle and kiss, too much of a gentleman to say any morewave
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Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:38 AM CST
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I am comfortable with being single. But I have also come to a point in my life that I am ready for a relationship.......the right relationship. I have love all around me from my kids to my animals etc... but who am I fooling if I said, I love the fact that I have the bed to myself with no one snoring? Fact still remains, there is nothing like a positive, loving relationship to go to bed, watch a movie.......not speaking of sex here, thats another thread LOL.......anyways to be able for two people to share and trust is a wonderful thing
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omans02
Antwerpen Belgium
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:39 AM CST
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I am with Agman...I don't like it.

But being single has some advantages. A lonely heart has none...
Mbcasey,

We all can say what we want, the truth is, believe it or not, there is this inner part of us that still keeps reminding us we aint comfortable,head banger dancing peace
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:41 AM CST
I like it at this point in my life. I've lived with someone my entire life. Married at 19, went from home with family to living with a husband. After we divorced, I always had my child, so I'd never lived alone till I was 48, and I love it!

I guess I'd like to be with someone again, someday. But I'd rather be alone than with the wrong person, been there done that. It's a nice thought to have someone special to grow old(er) with. Even with the right one though, I think I'd still need my alone time. I can't bear the thought of having someone up my butt all the time.

I'm perfectly happy being single now, and if it's this way the rest of my life, then I'll be happy with that too . grin
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MakoWH
Lyon, Rhone-Alpes France
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:43 AM CST
Personnaly I'm very independant so I'm not bad being single, but it would be a far better thing to meet someone. Loneliness is a good thing, but not for too long professor (2 years for me crying )
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JerichoHale
Cavan Ireland
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 10:52 AM CST
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Personnaly I'm very independant so I'm not bad being single, but it would be a far better thing to meet someone. Loneliness is a good thing, but not for too long (2 years for me )
2 years, is that all lol
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emc_eile
galway, Galway Ireland
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 12:47 PM CST
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lovin it being single i get to do whatever i want to do


mmm maybe for now but wait til the aliens bring you back to earth n we'll see wink

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emc_eile
galway, Galway Ireland
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 12:49 PM CST

actually its fun being single, have lots of friends to play with .... dont have to wonder about anyone else but me yay

though do like to have someone to share stuff with too wink
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Raindog
East Hampton, Connecticut USA
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 12:56 PM CST
If everyone is so comfortable being single then why participate on these websites? I think the purpose of joinig these things is to meet someone you click with and if all goes well, no longer be single.

I don't know about everyone else but I'm looking for companionship. I love my dog and all but his conversational skills only go so far.
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