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Well I've been single now for 23 years, I've dated some and had a few short term relationships so I should be pretty comfortable with it by now In spite of the fact that I have a great circle of friends, a wonderful lover who has been in my life for 4 years, there is still something missing.

That person who's eye you catch across the room and smile at, the person whom you can sit next to and comfortably stroke the back of his neck, lazy morning sex, curling up on the couch with some popcorn and a good movie and having a warm body to snuggle with and someone to share the laughs or try to hide your tears from, when E.T. says goodbye. That guy who will patiently listen when you have to read something out loud that you just read and thought was really profound.

These are just a few of the "little things" that I miss, but like so many of you have already voiced, I would rather go without them then settle for someone just for the sake of having them.

So I'll carry on, enjoying my life as much as possible and who knows, maybe somewhere along the road I'll find that very special man that makes my life even more enjoyable then it is now

Here's Hoping

I'm comfy bein single, it allows you to have soooo much fun with the people on here on a Friday night....say any of you guys wanna come along to the lucky dip thread??? we'll make it worth your while and you'll get either a flower or a teddy bear......

Being single has been pretty good for me. I've always been comfortable as a single person. I tend do get back to my core individual self(something I'd like to be able to do in a relationship,but it has been difficult finding someone who fully respects my passions, I'm from the school of "don't try to change me, just try to love me for who I am"). So being single feels perfect. I've been looking for someone who can enjoy my energy, and share my love for high energy outdoor activities and on the other hand have enough going for them that they have many interests and don't mind going seperate ways sometimes,without making a big deal about it. I used to own a shirt that stated "My girlfriend told me if I go surfing one more time she'd leave me.....gosh I'll miss her". It has been for a long time a scenario that would play itself out over and over again......

A determined man on a mission with his passions!!

Priorities first!!

Good on ya!!

For the most part I'm okay being single. It's like anything in life...for everything you get, you give up something else.

Took the words right out of my mouth!

Guess it's been said several times already....I'm comfortable with being single....but I'm also ready for a relationship. I've had my time of doing what I want, when I want...I'd like to go back to sharing and hope that it's better than the first time around.

Ya need to hook up with one of us that feels the same...lol

I'm just glad I'm not single anymore......

Very happy -n- staying that way!!!!!!!

extreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeemely comfortable.............with no need to change it

Apparently I am not comfortable enough being singles, as I have found my way to a singles site in search of being "un-single."

Yeah I am content with living alone (with my 4 year old), I can pay my bills, go on vacation, wash my car, etc, etc...all by myself, bit I am apparently not comfortable being single.

Maybe it's that being single isn't nearly dramatic enough for me.

It's great except for the not having anyone to hold, hug, kiss, spend time with................ oh well, maybe it isn't so great

it's getting worse with every passing day.....i hate it!!!

yea theres too much love in this heart and on cs for anyone to be comfortable being single " connecting singles and luving it.com"

Well being single works for me.Cause I am independant with a capitol I.And everytime I let one get a little too close they are wanting to bring a toothbrush,change of underwear and it goes from that to bringing their things and moving on in.So I set the rules early on I say this is my space and when we get together I can share,but hours not days.

ANd where is the little emoction of the "Old Fart" in his recliner with the remote control??

Not only comfortable....but happy.