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To forgive or forget ?

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riyablossom
somewhere India
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:49 AM CST
What is more important in a relationship : To forgive or To forget ?


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foreveryoung1
cartagena, Murcia Spain
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:52 AM CST
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What is more important in a relationship : To forgive or To forget ?


I do not know Riy, but I do know that to forgive is a whole lot easier
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your_destiny
Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:52 AM CST
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What is more important in a relationship : To forgive or To forget ?


To forgive is again to forget; but only it takes guts to do it that way....
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Detente
North West, England UK
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:53 AM CST
Forgiveness for me.

To forget is impossible...we just try to do our best to put it to the back of our minds so as not to allow it to influence our best intentions.wine
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Aries01
Dublin, Dublin Ireland
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:54 AM CST
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What is more important in a relationship : To forgive or To forget ?


Forgive.. and mean it!!... don't know if it is possible to forget..
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Tiffanie
Nijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:55 AM CST


Forgive, but never forget
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simplesimon
Auckland New Zealand
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:55 AM CST
If it helps Ri the guys a huge as well you found out?FRAUD
I had to have my computer completeley re friggin installed 7hrs cos of the Michael de prince???who well say no more??
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PILIPALA
Cardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:55 AM CST
To fogive as you can't make your self forget you can only learn to live with your memories
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Eupho
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:57 AM CST
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What is more important in a relationship : To forgive or To forget ?


Oo that's a tuffy confused

I think forgiveness is the most important.. BUT... if you can't 'Forget' ... then your relationship is damaged.
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Tiffanie
Nijkerk, Gelderland Netherlands
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:58 AM CST
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Oo that's a tuffy

I think forgiveness is the most important.. BUT... if you can't 'Forget' ... then your relationship is damaged.


Depends on what it is
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riyablossom
somewhere India
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:58 AM CST
Often we see people forgive but continue to complaint about the person. Gossip and spout venom .

Is that forgiveness then ?
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riyablossom
somewhere India
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:59 AM CST
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Oo that's a tuffy

I think forgiveness is the most important.. BUT... if you can't 'Forget' ... then your relationship is damaged.
so u say forgive and forget ????
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your_destiny
Utrecht, Utrecht Netherlands
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 5:59 AM CST
I see lots of people here compete for best possible answer no matter if it is practically possible or not.......peace
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jlb684
Athens, Attica Greece
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 6:02 AM CST
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Oo that's a tuffy

I think forgiveness is the most important.. BUT... if you can't 'Forget' ... then your relationship is damaged.
I guess the trick is to have less frequent remembrances.

Some people are not willing to try to remember less often...we can't really totally forget something that caused us pain, but we can choose to stop bringing it to the forefront all the time.

Sometimes, though, we must accept that we may never get beyond that thing that hurt us and must, consequently, move on. Start anew.
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Eupho
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 6:03 AM CST
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Depends on what it is
Helloo Tiffanie wave

I agree, it would depend on what it was.

I have a memory like and elephant for stuff that hurts me tho, I'm not brilliant at the forgetting part. laugh
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Eupho
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 6:03 AM CST
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so u say forgive and forget ????
No.. I say for me.. I would struggle to do either giggle
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JerichoHale
Cavan Ireland
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 6:04 AM CST
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Simple Answer: Dont forgive them and just forget them. Easy-peesy lemon squeezy.

If someone has put you in the situation to an extent where you have to make such an important choice between the two, the relationship is potentially over. Its just one simple push away from destruction.
I suppose if what happened was serious like cheating, i would finish it and not forgive them. Feck themwave
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foreveryoung1
cartagena, Murcia Spain
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 6:04 AM CST
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Helloo Tiffanie

I agree, it would depend on what it was.

I have a memory like and elephant for stuff that hurts me tho, I'm not brilliant at the forgetting part.
I think most women have Eupho
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Eupho
Wild Wild South West, England UK
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 6:05 AM CST
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I think most women have Eupho
Hellooo wave hug
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Dknew
Warner, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Jan 5, 2008, 6:06 AM CST
I don't know the answer to that Riya, But do know that to forgive is the easier part.
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