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was she refused supervised custody?? maybe it's only tempory??

I agree she is not a capable parent... can't really argue that she should have sole custody.. supervised custody though.. mainly for the children... I would just hate for them to think that they were being abandoned.. or that she do something bad to herself.. not an easy issue though.. I definitely have to concede that!!

I really do not feel sorry for her at all, she missed important meetings with her legal team, who have in fact asked to be released from acting for her.
It says a lot when a client who would be paying them big bucks will drop you.
I am of the opinion that most parents would walk over hot coals to get custody of their children. What is so important that she missed appointments and meetings where her childrens welfare is at risk?
I wonder how full her social calendar is that she something else to do.
OK People/Parents make mistakes ... But don't they learn by them?


1. April 2006, Sean Preston falls out of high chair and hits his head. The babysitter is blamed.
2. April 2006, Britney drives with 8 month old Sean Preston on her lap.
3. April 2006, Britney is alleged to worry that Sean Preston has suffered brain damage from the 2 or 3 times he fell out of her bed while he was sleeping with her.
4. May 2006, Britney is spotted driving with Sean Preston in a forward-facing carseat. Not illegal under CA law, but ill-advised.
5. May 2006, Britney stumbles outside a NY hotel while carrying SeanPreston, nearly dropping him.
6. December 2006, Britney begins spending alot of time with Paris Hilton, partying. Paris defends her saying “partying has not come in the way of her parenting.”
7. July 2007, Britney and her kids squat at a Pacific Palisades CA home they toured as part of a real estate deal; a home on the market for $6.5 million. They eat tacos and mess up the furnishings, Britney’s bodyguards even going to her home to retrieve some of her belongings and bringing them back to the home.
8. July2007, Britney takes her kids for a boat ride in Marina del Rey; the children do not wear life jackets.
9. July 2007, it is reported that Britney has her sons fetch her cigarettes from around the house, calling them “Mama’s lollipops.”
10. August 2007, DCFS investigates allegations of poor dental hygiene, eating and sleeping habits of Britney’s children. It is alleged that Britney tried to get a LA dentist to whiten Sean Preston’s teeth, rotting from Baby Bottle Syndrome.

For a person who has virtually EVERY resource at her feet, the empathy isn't oozing from me. (as I watch her being carted off at this moment)

Hi Aries
I think I would like to see her with supervised visits, until if ever she shows that she is capable of being alone with them.
I'm not sure there is such a thing as supervised custody, I could be wrong. Isn't custody only an option if you are capable of being alone with them and caring for them, even if it is shared custody. But the childrens welfare is paramount, and the powers that be have to bear in mind safety-mental-emotional etc and so on issues.
If she loves her kids enough, if she wants them enough, then I am sure without doubt she will seek the help she needs and do all in her power to get them back. But would you not think that turning up at meetings is the first step? Even be late if she has to - but not to turn up at all. Well - Actions speak louder than words.

I also feel very sorry for her, and I dont usually have much time for these pampered women who cannot
dress themselves without helpand have no idea what it is like in the real world.

She has made a lot of big mistakes, hooking up with fed was her biggest, esp as his wife was pregnant at the time.
I just think she is lost and in a very dark place.
She does not feel she has any support at all and I don't believe her family are capabable of seeing her as their daughter, they see her as britney, the money earner.
It will take a lot to get her feeling strong.
I just hope that she gets the help she needs and does not do anything stupid,
It must be breaking her heart to not be able to see her children and while some people would be spurred on to
make the necessary changes, for others they just make more bad choices and make matters worse.
She is a lost young woman who needs a lot of support, I hope she finds it, somewhere.

I really do not feel sorry for her at all, she missed important meetings with her legal team, who have in fact asked to be released from acting for her.
It says a lot when a client who would be paying them big bucks will drop you.
I am of the opinion that most parents would walk over hot coals to get custody of their children. What is so important that she missed appointments and meetings where her childrens welfare is at risk?
I wonder how full her social calendar is that she something else to do.
OK People/Parents make mistakes ... But don't they learn by them?


1. April 2006, Sean Preston falls out of high chair and hits his head. The babysitter is blamed.
2. April 2006, Britney drives with 8 month old Sean Preston on her lap.
3. April 2006, Britney is alleged to worry that Sean Preston has suffered brain damage from the 2 or 3 times he fell out of her bed while he was sleeping with her.
4. May 2006, Britney is spotted driving with Sean Preston in a forward-facing carseat. Not illegal under CA law, but ill-advised.
5. May 2006, Britney stumbles outside a NY hotel while carrying SeanPreston, nearly dropping him.
6. December 2006, Britney begins spending alot of time with Paris Hilton, partying. Paris defends her saying “partying has not come in the way of her parenting.”
7. July 2007, Britney and her kids squat at a Pacific Palisades CA home they toured as part of a real estate deal; a home on the market for $6.5 million. They eat tacos and mess up the furnishings, Britney’s bodyguards even going to her home to retrieve some of her belongings and bringing them back to the home.
8. July2007, Britney takes her kids for a boat ride in Marina del Rey; the children do not wear life jackets.
9. July 2007, it is reported that Britney has her sons fetch her cigarettes from around the house, calling them “Mama’s lollipops.”
10. August 2007, DCFS investigates allegations of poor dental hygiene, eating and sleeping habits of Britney’s children. It is alleged that Britney tried to get a LA dentist to whiten Sean Preston’s teeth, rotting from Baby Bottle Syndrome.

I don't think she is a poor girl.
It's her own fault!
Everybody has to make decisions in life and everybody has to life with the effects of these decisions.
She had the chance to say no more then one time, it was her decision to life her live like she had did it.
She had could chance her life more then one time. She had got many warnings before and she had got many offers to help.
How many "no-VIP-woman" had got so many chances?
She is a adult person, which has responsibility for her own life.
And she is a mother and with this she had the responsibility for the life of her kids also.
She isn't the only one who had a hard childhood or who had a bad life, but it is everybodys own decision to chance things or to continue the live as always.
No she isn't poor, quite contrary in my opinion.