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Ok this is my dilemma.
There is a group of girls that i get on well with. They are all friends with one another. They are all really kind and nice to me. I have kissed ( not a peck, if you know what i mean ) 3 of them but i was never intimate with any of them. I like one of the girls in particular and she seems to like me whenever we meet up.She is one of the friends i have never kissed. She is very pretty and very sincere. I dont think she knows i kissed some of the others.
Would she hold it against me that i played a little tonsil-tennis with a few of her close friends or would she simply not care?

If a mate of mine was kissing a girl i personally would never kiss her. I dont know why i guess maybe its a guy thing. That is why i need female advice on this matter.

Thanks in advance girls

You slut!

You need to be upfront and honest with her...let her have the right to decide....for me kissing would not be a problem...it is how you take that kiss then would be the issue

I would say that you dont know very much about the fairer sex if you think these girls dont tell each other everything.

I wouldn't be completely put off if I was her and was interested in you, as long as it was well understood that there had never been anything more than a kiss (or, tonsil-tennis!) with the others.
However, having said that, I might wonder about your sincerity. If you had kissed many of the others in my group of friends, I would wonder how many other women outside of my circle you are also kissing...and why?
In the end, it will just boil down to her own feelings towards you. If she is attracted to you and wants to be with you, she will likely overlook the previous actions in order to be with you, but I doubt she will be totally ok with it.

I don`t see any reason why you gotta discuss what you did to other girls? If you go thru life having to tell each new partner exactly what you did to the last ones .... you gonna have a rather traumatic time.
The same as you don`t discuss your sex life, or shouldn`t, with all and sundry, what you do in your intimate moments should be private to you? Don`t go blabbing......

Of course, if she holds you down and threatens you with bodily harm unless you tell her exactly what you did and how you did it, well then you gotta tell. Otherwise, if the subject comes up..... give a casual answer, like its no big deal?

he sure doesnt ha ha

Just a suggestion, play tonsil tennis with gals that aren't friends.

Just be honest with her. She will know all about the tonsil tennis with the other, because WOMEN TALK!!!!!

If you really like her, just tell her!

lol

The girls know i am genuine and dont race around with other girls. The truth is i didnt know which of them liked me enough to go on a date with me so i never asked any of them. And then if i met one of them out in a club they would kiss me and i got confused and i still am. I never went to sleep with any of them it was just french-kissing ( tonsil-tennis). I think they were using me and making a fool out of me

It's important to have your rendevous in different towns. Come on dude, get it right


(Although, once I did that and bumped into 2 women that I'd been chatting with online, at the same pub, plus the gal I was meeting.)

Was funny....and none of them were anything serioius, just friends.

Hi Jericho... Hmm I don't think I were like it if I had known that. I would feel a bit like I was 'next in line'.. or was the 'last on the list'. I wouldn't think you think you were perhaps being sincere, and that maybe I was just *NEXT*.

lmao actually yeah.. that's a bloody good point Bubbles.. she may actually already know and doesn't care.

OMG! someone teach me how to type!


*I would think that maybe you weren't being sincere.. and that I was just *NEXT*

Think on this for a moment you said all are friends.And girls regardless of the cat fights do tend to hold tight.So bring it up and out to her it can't I don't believe should matter.Since your feelings for her in particular you want her to know.