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Each relationship is different. Maybe to self reflect to see what and why you are attracted to woman who are like that??? Well look at the bright side, they say 3rd time is a charm It's unfortunate that you have had to endure that but hopefully you will have learned something from it. You know what you don't want because it's been done to you, so when you are looking for someone in your life, find the qualities that are more like you and again look back and ask yourself what kind of women am I attracted to??? Maybe you will get some insight with that?

Spanky

and yes there is always hope

My ex first attempted a "til death do you part" style divorce. This was just the climax of a 3 year marriage that went sour about 4 months in. Other than that my list isn't as bad as yours. My point is that not all women are "sugar and spice."

Damn, I hate it when someone else's answer is better than mine...

sounds like your ex's & my ex's should get together as they seem to have a lot in common.

never give up on love.

hmmmmm i think i just met another twin

No matter what has happened in the past, you have to keep in mind "all men/women" are NOT the same. There are plenty of bad ones, but on the flip side there are plenty of good ones.

My advice to a friend recently with the same type of problem was to sit down, write a list of all the things that attracted you to the person (for each ex), see where the commons are that pose a problem.........then write another list of the things you do want in a partner............mix the 2 and there ya go......look for someone without the problem traits and all the good things you found in those past partners plus the good things you do want. ......................low and behold she did listen, has a great man one i wish i had met first lol j/k , but they are doing well.

There is hope out there always.........and wrong city or not, if you don't fear travel you will meet lots of lovely people here to choose from!!!

Good luck in your quest

... never give up... after all that u DEFINITELY deserve happiness.. be careful tho.. and be honest with urself.. do u find urself attracted to a certain 'type' if so identify that type, be CONSCIOUS of that type.. and keep the hell AWAY from them.. learn within yourself to honestly believe u deserve more and seek this kind of person out..

I wish u the best of luck

Love ur picture by the way.. is that ur eye?.. cute eye!!

Yeah, it does sound as if your town isn't up to much.

If I were you I'd move and hope for 3rd time lucky in the love dept

aries01 you made me blush on the last one
all of you have got good advice i'll see what i come up with
..thank you ya'll
john