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In the end it's the little things that become the big things I do believe. That unexpected love tap on the backside...a peck on the cheek while you're sleeping, a suprise call at work just to say you're missed... Those are the things I really remember. Not gifts.

JMO~

Yeah it was fun....Also got to see some other friends I had not seen in way too long. All in all an enjoyable night.

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Yep I agree with that Riya

so True Indy ...

The little things which give the utmost happiness and yet the utmost pain.

I really can't say Riya, The only time I believe I was I screwed that up.

True, unconditional, eternal love is something that some think only happen once in a lifetime. I don't agree. I think that it's something that happens many times, and eternal love doesn't mean that the relationship lasts forever it just means that person leaves their special touch on your heart. True, everlasting love is something that enraptures your whole being.

I have been to that point where you're willing to sacrifice everything. My career, my education, my friends and family. I don't regret it at all because I learned so much from it. Even though it's over I will carry that person with me forever and the lessons I've learned from that relationship. I am glad however that we've gone our separate ways.

I do hope that I fall in love again one day. That feeling that completely takes over your heart and soul!

If i may ask why so ? Only if you wish to talk about it.

Well to be honest I don't know what true love is; I use to think I knew what love was, but as the years have past and the relationships have came and gone and I look back on my experiences, I know in my heart of hearts there is no way that is what they would call Love.

I just wanted to be loved so bad back than that I accepted who ever came all and gave it my all and took whatever he dished out I never got anything in return but heartache.

So now it is hard for me to extend myself to a guy I am very choosy and I really have to get to know a guy first, which is not easy for me anymore. I know all guys are not like the guys I have been with but until I am completely sure about a guy. I can not just give my heart away anymore and by the time I am feeling secure most guys are no longer talking to me. I am sorry I can not just tell someone I love them after the first few dates or im's

But my idea of Love and what it should be might be stupid to others and that's ok to.
I see myself one day with a guy that I can wake up to in the morning and than say goodnight to at bed time. A guy that once in awhile will show me he loves me (even if it is just a pat on the butt) it dont have to be something major just little jesters. The little things count just as much to me than anything big. It don't take alot to make me happy ya I no everyone has there good and the bad; I just want more of the good in a relationship and if I can not have that than I would rather be alone anymore.

I could write on this subject of Love all day long because, I have thought about it so much and what it meant to me once and what it means to me now. I am getting to old for the games people play with peoples hearts, I don't like it and I won't put up with it.

This day I shall concentrate on the inner meaning of the Commandment "Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thy self". I will accept myself, for that is the primary condition under which the good in me can grow. Unless I am at peace with the child of God I am, I cannot love & help my neighbor. Regrets are vain. They interfere with the good I could do today, the making of the better person I want to be tomorrow.

Condemning ourselves for mistakes we have made is just as bad as condemning others for theirs. We are really not equiped to make judgements, not even of ourselves.

Thomas A'Kempis said: "All perfection in this life is attended by some imperfection and all our farseeing is without obscurity."


Is it possible to love another,yet not have love for ourselves???????????????????

True love.... are friendships caught on fire!

You cant value another , if you cant value yourself !!

To be able to love , you need to have it within.

The very reson there should be as less time and space possible for hate and deceit.

Hate and deceit comes from within us, it has absolutely nothing to do with another. We only need to look into a mirror and ask, "do I like what I see"? I do, and I have no problem admitting it..

HHMMM!!!!! Now, does this make me concieted or does this allow me to value others simply because I value me?

"Thinking", always thinking..

True love....I really don't know the answer to this question...I thought I found true love, but......

I forgot who said this, but when the topic of pornography vs. art came up some years ago, the quote "I'll know it when I see it" was applied.

I think that is my new credo...I don't know what laundry list of qualities I am looking for. I don't know what type of person I will fall for....I don't know what sacrifices i will make or limits I will accept.

I will know it when I see it.

And questioning myself and my motives, not questioning others and their motives..

I have an affirmation calendar on my desk.


Today, the affirmation is:

"I allow more love into my life every day"


When love comes knocking, do we open the door?

Can we believe in true love and take the chance??