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Then I'll go to bed and hope for sweet dreams. Wake up in the morning and face reality, which translates to, which reality do I want to deal with ? Wishes, hopes, dreams, delusions, illusions ?

I'll leave it up to you to plot my life. I trust you. Guide me.

Maybe, you could simply deal with today?? Not what is history, not what is the future and unseen. Simply this one day, this and only this 24 hours..

Sounds like one day at a time

Embrace the present moment.

Booze never brought me dreams of any sort. Hallucinations, yes, but not dreams. Wake up tomorrow and do a small act of kindness for someone. Smile at them. Then proceed to live a simple life, so others may simply live.

Well. I think I did a pretty good job there. Who's next? They pay shrinks what, 80 bucks an hour for this? =)

wow what are you?
from 1997?

80 bucks an hour?
youre waaay off

but yeah paws-
you know by now there are a number of *ahem*
i cant even think of a way to say it...
so i wonder, is the regular mention a desire to change?
thats the only requirement for membership ya know...

Cheer up paws lots of love too you

For real!


It's like $140/hr around here.

WHere the hell do you find one that cheap??? Damn, my therapist gets $125.00 and she is only an L.C.S.W.............. But an absoutely great one..

why does it not surprise me that the 3 of us
know what shrinks cost?

thats like the funniest thing that has happened today




we are not doctors

I can’t prove it’s true, but I choose to believe people treat me the way
I’ve taught them to treat me. This creates a big responsibility for me.
It means that if I don’t like the way someone is treating me, I can alter
their behavior by first changing my own. I can have a positive influence
on the situation. Since I have, by my behavior, taught them to treat me
the way they are treating me, I can often, by changing my behavior,
teach them to treat me differently. If I want them to change, I must
change first. It is a basic psychological teaching that if we want to
change the way we feel, we must first change the way we act.

-- You Can't Make Me Angry, Dr. Paul O.

We were depressed and complained we felt bad, when in fact we were
mainly asking for sympathy and attention.

-- Twelve Steps And Twelve Traditions, page 94

In this life I honestly believe that delusional is a choice most times,we choose to feel the way we want to,even when we know sometimes it really isn't like that at all,I have believed this for a long time,goodnight to you.sweet dreams.

what in tarnation brought THAT up?

tarnation? haven't heard that one in a bit,wonder if it is a word,have used it all my life.

1784, Amer.Eng. alteration of darnation
(itself a euphemism for damnation),
influenced by tarnal (1790), from phrase by the Eternal (God).

dictionary.com


nothing in thesaurus.com tho

youre welcome

Hi Leo, did anyone beat my bid of 39.95? If not I have expectations!

he's not here right now but i must say
daaang!
how do you stay up all hours and still look so fresh?

It's a gift... or maybe a curse?
I play to hard... and maybe it will catch up with me?
But do I care???
Probably not.
Because all I have is today...