Connecting Singles^® Forums100% Free Online Dating

guys think that they have it made but really they think they can live without us but they need to relize that they cant.

we do??? I didnt get the memo...hey why wasnt I inform of this!!! Where is the manual?? Oh yes we men dont need manual...we just go straight until we reach Albquerque. got it..lol...sorry to good to resist

no, guys can live without women it just makes our life a little easier knowing that someone else is there to care for us and cook and clean for us.

lol dont hate the messenger, didnt mean to make it sound like im an ass but how many women honestly out there REALLY do like 'cooking for their man'... i put that in quotes because that is how it was said to me by other women.

thank you for your time,
tony

p.s. batteries can only last so long so try not to make this a forum about male bashing. thanks again

you are wrong both of you are.

i have been doing for 12 years and believe or not it is by choice.i could be with a woman but i chose not to be.my children takes up most of my time and i do not have time to give to a woman that she will need.

but a man can live without a woman,like a woman can live without a man.

you have to get use to it but it can be done,there are something more important in life than your needs.

my children are more important to me than my needs are,i have been sacrificing my life for my children for the past 12 years.they do not ask to be born and it is my responsibility to take care of them until they are old enough to take care of their ownsevles.

it is also due to the fact most woman do not want to take the time to see the man behind the 5 children in front of the man.they cannot get past the children in order to see what is inside of the man behind the children.

yes i miss having someone in my life but my children will always and forever come first.the only 1 who comes before my children is God for he is the one who gave them to me and they 1 who gives me everything i need to take care of them.

but i do not miss the same thing other man miss about a woman.i miss being able to hold her in my arms feeling her heart beat against my.knowing her heart is beating out love for me,as my heart is beating out love for her.looking into her eyes and saying i love you she knows in her heart thos words are true and they will forever be true.i miss looking into the eyes of the angel that was heaven sent for me.yes all woman are angels even if sometimes they do not act like it.but you have to love them as 1 and treat them as 1.i miss holding her in my arms and being able to hold the one who found me was willing to open up her heart and let my love in grow with each beat of her heart.the one who is willing to share her life with me knowing she could have picked anyone but she picked me.

yes i miss when each new day comes finding new ways to show and tell her how much i love her and how much she means to me.even if it is leaving her roses with little notes on them saying i love you,even if it means cooking for a candle light dinner with roses around her.taking care of her when she is sick with tlc.just spending hours talking to her.holding her hand as we are walking around.standing in front of everyone so they can hear how much i love her.not being afraid to tell her how much i love her in front of everyone.beign able to stop and kiss her no matter where we are.

falling asleep with her in my arms making the last words she heard before she fall alseep being i love you.thanking God for allowing me to find the angel that he sent from heaven just for me.waking up with her in my arms thanking God for giving me a new day to show this angel how much i love her and how much she means to me.to show her that my love for her will now,always and forever be true

there was a right answer?? no
but i am not a guy who think you can go alone without a great woman behind you...look at all the most influence people in history...every powerful men have a woman there...FDR had Elenor (eventhrough she was bi), Woodrow Wilson had his second wife(cant remember her name) when he had his stroke..she was the acting president without the country knowing it, Napoleon was good for France when he was with Joesphine but went down hill when he dumped her.

It also work when a men have a bad woman behind him...Lady Macbeth influence Macbeth, Hitler had that blonde chick..and we all knew what a fruitcake he was...and Bill had Hillary...so we all had seen it ...

I dont really think us men truly believe we can do this alone...and that is my opinion

Load of crap.

I want nothing to do with a guy who CAN'T live without a woman.

hey sweet...

we arent trying to berate you or gang up on you, but if you have something to say about men, say so... dont just say your opinion and think everyone is going to take it as fact. a lot of the reason why women go through male hating moments is either because they got dumped (hard) or they are going through their periods and are emotional/hormonal. however, those feelings change like the weather and men always understand when women feel the way they do. maybe not at first, but we learn quickly. and most of the time, the 'bigger man' still means that they are willing to talk to women even though they are first met with opposition.

talk to us. we can help

tony

^^^^Speaking for himself.

I'm not cushioning my statement.

Man bashing blows.

I have to say I'd prefer a mate who was totally happy and self sufficient without me, and I the same about her, and that we just found it even better when we were together, though I totally understand Wind's point (I think, respectfully).

Exactly - being needy and dependent isn't an attractive trait.
....seeking someone confident and independent, etc,etc,ect

Life enhancement, yes. Life completion, no.

Always nice with a partner, but we were born whole. Not in need of another half.

oh I am not saying that at all...all I said a men can do more better things when he know someone really love him for himself...it not dependent , it self confident

TONY
some guy are worthless
they beat on their weoan,they drink and do drugs and then they want to take it out on us
dont think so








AINT TRYIN HATE ON GUYS TONY
IT IS JUST SOME ARE AH

I agree with Last_Warlord.

I definitely do better with a partner than without one. Life is more meaningful, I accomplish more. It's just better all the way around. I do *need* a partner to genuinely have a fulfilling life in that respect

That doesn't translate into being needy or dependant at all. If she wants to leave don't let the door hit her in the ass on the way out. I'm not going to beg her to stay or be *needy* of her in any way. That's not at all the same thing as needing a partner.

Needing someone in your life, and being *needy* are two entirely different things.

In fact, if you hook up with someone who genuinely doesn't need you chances are very high that you will soon discover that they REALLY don't need you at all.

I sincerely hope that my woman needs me every bit as much as I need her should I ever happen to find her.

Good Grief!! Where is my highlighter pen when I need it!! The part about "Needing someone in your life, and being"needy" are two entirely different things." Well done. Everyone knows its been proven that married men live longer than those who are single. Read it in a sociology class somewhere. I have found the second paragraph to be diffinently true (just recently in fact). I am just thank-ful I found out BEFORE I made any lifetime committment.

Want and need are fleeting...only love is eternal.

You're just hanging around with the wrong guys LOL

Here here.

Complimentary yes. Enhancement as Windy says yes. Completion no.

Anyways, the bottom line is we cannot live without you. The need for repopulation of the species is at the very base.

So biology says so people....and I love my biology.

Like everything else dure to the economy, it is unfortunate and hurts me as much as it does them , but I only have part-time openings.....I t can develope into full time but as previously statd due to the economic crunch.... LOL