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Ladies I just have a quick question. I want to get as many replies to this as possible. What is it that women want? Seriously. I know everyone wants someone different so that's why I want as many posts as possible. This is for everyone to put their perspective on. To all the ladies... Tell us what you want!

Where to start?! Just joking. I cannot speak for all women nor will I even assume I can. I can only speak for myself. I want a man that loves laughter and can be serious when needed...doesn't walk in front of me only beside me...respects my advice when asked for or kindly given...is kind and gentle but strong of character and will stand by my side in times of hurt...is LOYAL to me is most important with honest with me...isn't afraid to try new things at least once in life because life is too short...a man that is comfortable in his own skin and loves himself otherwise he couldn't really love anyone else...a man that loves music would be a plus...
I don't think women are looking for anything unattainable really...just for somethings that so far in my experience the men I have been in contact with just cannot give.

Hi mccormick

Well what I personally have alway's wished for, is simply someone to love me and my girl's for who we are, as I would them. Also to help 50/50 work/house share everything.

Simple eh you would think ? but it isnt because of the following...

I dont want possesive/immature/mentally weak/insecure/obsessive/drunk's/drug using men, that's where the problem's come in.

Good call,sounds simple enuf

what we want and what we get are two different things,i don't think we ever end up with our perfect partner,and most of us settle for second best but that is where love comes into it we grow to love that person and they slowly but surely become your first choice.
i mean i'm looking for a country music loving brad pitt lookalike lol i think i'll be drawing my pension a single woman.

I want someone who makes me laugh and laughs with me :)

I want mutual respect,understanding and love.I want someone who likes to laugh and accepts my son.I want some hot cocoa the only thing on this list that I know exists.

Hi McCormick,
Now you know that is a tough question! Me personally, I don't alwys know what I want (smile) sad but true! In my years of meeting men and getting to know them, and having a brother and listening to him talk about women. I don't know. What I do know Mc, Is that I want laughter in my life!!!!
I hope this helps, at least a little bit!
Julie

What can I say? Four "little" words, one "BIG" question. For me, I want a man who knows what I want without having to ask. I believe in destiny and that there is that person out there that is near perfect suited for each of us, the hard part if finding them! I know it is a tall order and probably not realistic in this society. But asking what it is woman want is like looking for a needle in a haystack, each person is different and will be looking for different characteristics some may be the same honesty, kindness, laughter etc.... but there is always that something that sparks between two people when they know its right. I suggest you stop trying to understand woman and just enjoy them, it more fun that way.

it sure is not a hard time or a deadbeat boyfreind

Yeah I guess everyone has a valid point. Thanks!

I'm not sure that most of them even know what they want . I've been writting PeggySue56 for about a month , I had started thinking we might be headed somewhere , she has been telling me she could see us getting together . Today she gave me the "kiss off" because I wasn't useing her full name ( called her Dorothy instead of DorothyAnne) . Come on , anyone could come up with a better excuse than that . If she didn't want to write all she had to do was have some manners and tell me so , instead of gettin my hopes up , then pulling the rug out from under me . To add insult to injury , she blocked my emails , so I couldn't ask her why she did this . I think she's a game player ... And to all the women who read this .. This sort of woman doesn't do any of you any good . Now I'm gonna be more leary , and not so willing to open myself up and give people chances.

If I gave men the kiss off because I encountered a jackass now and then I would be a lesbian.C'mon Mountainman give us a chance !!

Oh brother! I'm sorry this happened to u mountain man but she is NOT the poster child for women and i don't care what she did she's not me nor would it ever be me. If i took just one example of a guy who did me wrong and told u he's ruined it for all other men i'd be a lesbian just like cutelil..lol We've all had bad things happen to us when it comes to dating or marriage but we have to learn to isolate them, learn from them and keep moving forward. I've definately had my share of heartaches and losers but of course it didn't start out that way in the relationship. I love men and i never bash them. Every relationship i've had i take a little something away from it that helps me understand, grow and improve myself and what i need and and what i can give in a new relationship. Men are awesome and some i still carry in my heart.

Mountainman....if you feel the need to respond to her "kiss off"....she doesnt have ME blocked!! *grin*

What I myself want is the opposite of abusiveness, immaturity, someone who drinks, smokes or does drugs. Who won't discuss things with me is dominate etc... or who cheats on me. What I want is a little bit of heaven in a monoganous man... he'll get the same heaven from me...

missie you little rascal you lol
Springchi I 'll give you an amen sista!!

On our thread called "Whats on the inside madders the most. Not age looks or size" I have posted a link to a some web stuff by experts, a graph and an article about a book. The article lists what women want. Oh, and what men want,too.

This is what women want, it says --

Resources and Commitement:

1. Economic Capacity
2. Social Status
3. Age (the right age)
4. Ambition and Industiousness
5. Dependability and Stability
6. Intelligence
7. Compatibility
8. Size and Strength
9. Good Health
10. Love.
11. Kindness.
12. Sincerity.


What about men? Oh, well, we want what you always
knew we wanted, pretty young bimbos, see --

Reproductive Capacity and Fidelity:

1. Youth
2. Beauty
3. Attractive body shape


I deny it.

Take a look at that thread, and look at the article,
if you are curious.

dpw

Doug i agree with most of that article what we want but i'm a bit worried about no 8 size and strength lol

Yeah, the part I thought would make you mad was about
what WE want!

dpw