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Nice Vaprailla,
It comes down to honesty!! That can go a long way to making any person beautiful.

I totally agree if you dont have honesty in anyrelationship you have nothing but a bunch of lies.
I believe in being honest no matter what, if it hurts your feelings then thats life but it will hurt alot more if someone lies to you then you find out the truth later. Because no matter how good a lier you think you are the truth always comes out.

When I am ready, I would want someone who is my best friend, trustworthy, dependable, responsible, faithful, not afraid to communicate, assertive, secure, hard worker, can laugh and be serious, who can agree to disagee, can admit when they are wrong, open to new things, doesn't run when things get tough, no drugs, (I would be fussy about someone who drinks) social drinker would be okay depending upon there definition of one. Have to be honest here (looks count to me)has to be that attraction.

I would like someone who is honest no matter how bad the situation. I want someone who can take me in their arms and hold me without saying a word and I will know I am safe and secure.Every man I have dated in the past has a problem with wondering eyes I know I know guys you all like to look but when you find that one who is IT isn't she enough for you to look at. I would love to be the one that some guy couldn't keep his eyes off even if a super model walked by.

Dude, if you have to ask you’re in trouble., and i'm not saying this to be a smart ass.
But I’m going to try to help you out here to be a mentor so to speak.
Listen to me dude, a women wants and needs the most valuable thing you can give her “ your time” a man who will be honest, dependable, respectful and attentive to a women’s emotional needs (and most of the time that’s just being a good listener) will end up with the best friend and lover he could ever find.
A man will look the world over for a treasure, only to return home to find it, and all to often that’s much to late..
Big Daddywood

women want you to truly sacrifice every knowing who you are to fully experiance them as a whole,

they want alot of attention, as well as trust, i have found that the biggest issues with women are trust issues, if you can find a women who puts trust in you respect it.

most want it all and they want it now lol

in reply to darkest

when i was working locally i used to share the housework 50/50 with my g/f

when i was working away from home up to 6 weeks at a time she would have to do it herself

we split everything down the middle
housework money etc

at my work we used to have to hoover everything down at night as it was really dusty from the day
so lifting a hoover in the house was nothing to me
if i was off for a few days id do all the housework myself washing /dishes and all
i dont smoke or do drugs

now im living by myself i do it all myself and keep my house tidy cause i dont like living in a tip

so hang on there there are some good guys about

Do woman really know what they want? I ask this question because more frequently than not woman say that they want, honesty, dependability, etc. But, I always think that there is more to it than just that.

Bill

Women want someone that can be honest in every area of there life. honesty is huge and if you don't have that than you have nothing.

k

It does seem that "all the world is but a stage" as so many are into "mindgames",playing totally ficticious characters; they are not what they portray nor are they interested in any honesty; I wonder how many responses a woman would get if she simply asked for a "dirty,drunken,cursing drug-addict who is into abusing, beating women and likes to feel superior by trating them as disposable objects, please contact------------
you are the dream of my life" ???????????????

The best I can tell from reading all this is, men are the ONLY ones that are liars, drunks, drug addicts, cheats, noncaring and bums. IF that be the case, then I know what I have been doing wrong......I have been dating men acting as women. The nerve of them. I thought I was wrong knowing ALL women are perfect and all, but I thought it was just me. Let me back up and take another look at this situation and see if it is ONLY men that do these things, or if MAYBE women do also. Will let you know what I come up with.

Ricky

Ricky I think you could use a hug...(wink)

Oh, you bet there are women like that. Everywhere. We'd have to be stupid to believe otherwise...
I don't think all men are like that. anyone who does is in a world of hurt, eh?

At this point? Care, understanding, knowing how to tread lightly, and when to be rough ass. It could be an art?lol
As time goes on, and confidence builds...who knows. Life is too short to let people hurt you. If they do? Well, learn, and get up...

lmao...or maybe more.......:-)

Hmmm, more what?;)

Oh, and no mean people...ever.

MAYBE REPHRASING THE QUESTION WOULD FIND YOU WITH MORE PARTICIPANTS.

I dated a guy once that was so sweet and caring....just GREAT, (well except he was married and never told me for months)....he told me that the trick to knowing how to treat a woman, and what it was that we really wanted was reading COSMO....too bad he never read the part that says married men arent suppose to be dating other women!! LOL!!

i want a hotfudge sunday with peanut butter and caramel...

Now their is a woman that knows what she really wants. ;-)



Seems like most women want simliar things as men. Someone who will respect them equally and who will be honest and straight forward with them. I think most women want a guy who will be themselves and not try and be someone who he's not. I have been in relationships where everything appeared to be OK on the outside and then one day things just crumbled. Be it different views on how one should run their life or just different communication styles. Sometimes it takes a long time for things to work themselves out.

My only other comments for those women out there having a hard time finding a good man are this.... Some women are very superficial and can't see what's beyond whats on the outside. So start looking at those guys you talk to every day but who you have never thought about dating before. I bet if you said something to them about going out for a date that you would really enjoy yourselves.

Joe