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dcj22
Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 12:44 AM CST
How do you handle it and what do you do when someone has hurt your feelings?
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thegreeneyedbrat
Ridgecrest/China Lake, California USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 12:48 AM CST
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How do you handle it and what do you do when someone has hurt your feelings?
I don't let people in close enuf to hurt my feelings.... but when they do... i pull even further away... lick my wounds... and continue on autopilot... (pardon the spelling... been banging my head against the wall tonight... think something worked it's way loose)
moping blues moping blues
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dcj22
Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 12:51 AM CST
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I don't let people in close enuf to hurt my feelings.... but when they do... i pull even further away... lick my wounds... and continue on autopilot... (pardon the spelling... been banging my head against the wall tonight... think something worked it's way loose)
Nothing is ever loose in there Brat. hug
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countrygirl62
Taylorsville, Utah USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 12:55 AM CST
I try to forget and shake it off. Took me a while to master it, but now I am renown for my short term memory! Got to have it in this world. You got to roll with it baby!
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FishingMTgirl
Big Sky, Montana USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 12:55 AM CST
Hey sweety,

It depends on the situation. Most of the time if someone hurts my feelings, I let them know that what they said/did hurt my feelings and why. And sometimes it was a complete misunderstanding. Like I said tho..........it really does depend on the situation. If you need someone to talk to you can mail me

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rjrusty
Ridgecrest, California USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 12:56 AM CST
being with friends helps, they make ploting your next move interesting...
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thegreeneyedbrat
Ridgecrest/China Lake, California USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 12:57 AM CST
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Nothing is ever loose in there Brat.
hug thank you.... but days like today... i wonder... ya know... moping
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dcj22
Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 12:58 AM CST
Thanks, sweet friends.hug
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omega1036
spearfish, South Dakota USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:00 AM CST
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How do you handle it and what do you do when someone has hurt your feelings?
I've come to believe no one can make me feel anyway I dont' want to feel, so I have to ask myself what is the pay off , I really dont have the time to sit around worrying about , why did they do that to me ? the fact is they did, they are human and subject to error now where do I want to take it .Will I give them another chance or do I believe this was purposeful and therefore worth staying away from.cool
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FishingMTgirl
Big Sky, Montana USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:03 AM CST
It also depends on how much this person means to you, how important this person is to you. There is alot of things to way out. But if it really bothers you, face it with this person. They will either respect you and give you the same courtesy back, or just blow it off.
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dcj22
Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:05 AM CST
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It also depends on how much this person means to you, how important this person is to you. There is alot of things to way out. But if it really bothers you, face it with this person. They will either respect you and give you the same courtesy back, or just blow it off.
Actually, I was blown off.
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dcj22
Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:08 AM CST
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I've come to believe no one can make me feel anyway I dont' want to feel, so I have to ask myself what is the pay off , I really dont have the time to sit around worrying about , why did they do that to me ? the fact is they did, they are human and subject to error now where do I want to take it .Will I give them another chance or do I believe this was purposeful and therefore worth staying away from.
Thank you. That was very well put.

I think I've played so closed to the chest for so long and not let myself get close to anyone. I stuck with my friends that I'd had for years, and didn't allow myself to get close to anyone else. I've been trying to get away from that. It's just hard to know how to deal anymore when it isn't someone I've trusted for years or decades.
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constanza
Los Angeles, California USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:09 AM CST

I take off laugh
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CuspofMagic
The White Crystal CityOfLight, South Australia Australia
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:10 AM CST
when my defences are down --- crying helps- hugs and then looking at the hurt and understanding it --- dealing with it yay
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Shadow_lover
West Palm, Florida USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:10 AM CST
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How do you handle it and what do you do when someone has hurt your feelings?
Hit them really hard in the face repeatedly.....





























No just kidding.grin devil comfort
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FishingMTgirl
Big Sky, Montana USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:11 AM CST
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Thank you. That was very well put.

I think I've played so closed to the chest for so long and not let myself get close to anyone. I stuck with my friends that I'd had for years, and didn't allow myself to get close to anyone else. I've been trying to get away from that. It's just hard to know how to deal anymore when it isn't someone I've trusted for years or decades.
You were blown off............wow that does hurt for anybody. But then you have to sit back and tell yourself you have no control over somebody else in how they react or feel. Then I would start telling myself , well that is this persons choice, nothing I can do. And move on. Even tho it might be hard, the decision has already been made.
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dcj22
Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:13 AM CST
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when my defences are down --- crying helps- hugs and then looking at the hurt and understanding it --- dealing with it
Thank you. How bout that hug? hug
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dcj22
Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:14 AM CST
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Hit them really hard in the face repeatedly.....





























No just kidding.
Fun to thin of though if someone has just pissed you off. Being pissed, I can handle. hug
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dcj22
Somewhere, South Dakota USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:15 AM CST
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You were blown off............wow that does hurt for anybody. But then you have to sit back and tell yourself you have no control over somebody else in how they react or feel. Then I would start telling myself , well that is this persons choice, nothing I can do. And move on. Even tho it might be hard, the decision has already been made.
Yes, thank you. hug
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CuspofMagic
The White Crystal CityOfLight, South Australia Australia
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 1:15 AM CST
comfort hug and a head and foot massage helps laugh
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