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That would be nice! Wonder if I could train my dog...

Thanks folks. I appreciate the input.

Your welcome honey we love you girl

That is how I feel sometimes. Man, I love to go to the gym when I am pissed, what a work out. I will work out until I am exhausted, but you know after I sleep for a while, think about for a while, things are better. THEN I FORGET!

Thank you.

Just go over to your next door neighbour and tell him you are sorry and ask if you can still sleep with him!!

Lingering pain & hatred can be more distructive than the original injury.
I forgive & move on.
There was something in that person I loved to begin with, despite the ending.
With that in mind, I wish them well & forgive.
I can then move on & they can face their Karma without my involvement.

Besides... I don't need to be anywhere near them when the lightening bolts start to fly.
*grin...

God, you are a jackass. But you made me laugh. So, thanks, Marty. I'll see you in April.

I don't hate. I'm just hurt.

hey its what i do
but you ain't riding on my back in April

In an instant, I would just withdraw from my friends/ person who did that to me. I usually think it over what have I done to deserve all the hurt and after contemplating, I go back to them/him/her and face them/her/him and ask gently " why? why? why? why?"

Marty, you are just so seriously... not right.

If i have let them know .. ok.

But usually i would retrieve and not say a thing till i am feeling a little better.

I sleep !!! If i cant , i go for a walk and chocklate really helps !!!

i go off into my corner & pout for a short while, then i shake it off (forgive). i try to go back to the one that hurt me & resolve the matter if no resolution then keep away from that person, no more trust, no more friendship.

Hang in there kiddo it will get better......

Oo it depends who it is.. and how much they have hurt me.. but it usually makes me a little wary of them.. and less *open* around them.

Ohhhhhh.. well then I would be polite.. and not bother with them any more. stuff'em

I'm a lot like that too Riya..

aw pumpkin, sorry that someone has hurt you...


I for once have absolutely no advice! weird......

love ya sweetie,

I gotta tell ya, my last ex tore me to pieces... I was so deeply hurt by her I thought my whole world came to an end... between what she did to me emotionally, and my mother's death was the hardest time in my life I have ever had to go through.. There is no way to describe the pain I went through during that time, and it was so unexpected.. the part that hurt the worst was how she so easily broke it off with me.. without even a care... not going to go into to much detail about it... but that was the hardest time in my life I ever had to go through... I promise you I wouldn't wish that kind of pain on my worst enemy if I had one...

All I can say is it took me a long time before I started living again, and sometimes I still feel the pain of what she did to me, the scars will always be there I guess... but the day came when I realized that I had to do whatever it took to get past it no matter how bad I was still hurt..
I was laying in bed one morning and told myself she was not worth me being like this, so I picked myself up... started talking to friends.. put on a fake smile, and eventually the smile became real, I began to laugh again.. and just plain began to move on with my life even though it took all the strength I could muster..

I don't know the extent of your pain, but time really is the only thing besides support from your friends that can help you get through this..
With me it was my friends on CS that helped, because the rest of my friends outside of CS ran out on me when I needed them the most..

At least there is one thing for certian.. you can always come here and find friends that are willing to do whatever they can to help you get through this.. I hope that helps...