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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:11 PM CST
To "let go" does not mean you stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off, it is the realization I can't control another.

To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to be protective, it is to permit another to face reality.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less and love more.
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trish123
Lancashire, Lancashire, England UK
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:15 PM CST
In response to:
To "let go" does not mean you stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off, it is the realization I can't control another.

To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to be protective, it is to permit another to face reality.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less and love more.
Beautiful - thanks thumbs up
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:17 PM CST
In response to:
To "let go" does not mean you stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off, it is the realization I can't control another.

To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to be protective, it is to permit another to face reality.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less and love more.
Beautiful...hug hug
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curlywolf
quebec, Quebec Canada
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:19 PM CST
Truehug wave
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Daniel4021
Somewhere, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:22 PM CST
Very very good.. I really like it... especially this line..

To "let go" is not to be protective, it is to permit another to face reality.


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Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:27 PM CST
thank you, I needed this today!!!hug kiss hug
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xoredheadxo
Richwood, West Virginia USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:31 PM CST
Apparently this was for me.....some things going on in my life right now that are not really pleasant.....and this really hit home.....hard............

Thanks so much for sharing..hug
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Dknew
Warner, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:32 PM CST
"To "let go" is to fear less and love more."

Thx did just that
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Daniel4021
Somewhere, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:34 PM CST
awww... blue and red.. it will bo ok.. I promise.. time my friends..comfort
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rwantin
Costa Mesa, California USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:53 PM CST
Fantastic, and thank you. tip hat
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StarliteFantazy
FantazyLand, Missouri USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 7:31 PM CST
crying some of those hit really hard....below the belt....................but very much appreciatedhug
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Conrad73
Lonesome Town Zurich , Zrich Switzerland
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 7:43 PM CST
In response to:
To "let go" does not mean you stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off, it is the realization I can't control another.

To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to be protective, it is to permit another to face reality.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less and love more.
If it wasn't for the Glue on my Hands sometimes,it'd be easier to let go.
And why are there Scratchmarks on Things often,when I am finally able to let go?
sigh frustrated smile peace
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BamaBob
Cullman, Alabama USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 9:08 PM CST
I'm by far much better at it than in times past...but it still hurts when I've become attached. I have no problem letting go... it's dealing with the feelings that overcome me that is the problem... I'm the one who hurts like hell...but I do nothing to make HER hurt. To me that's what's important...not interfering with the other person... nothing you do can make someone love you and to try to do so is futile...time wasted... just suck up the pain..suffer through it and go on. I've done it, didn't like it, but I'm willing to do it again if that's what I have to do to know love again.
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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 9:23 PM CST
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I'm by far much better at it than in times past...but it still hurts when I've become attached. I have no problem letting go... it's dealing with the feelings that overcome me that is the problem... I'm the one who hurts like hell...but I do nothing to make HER hurt. To me that's what's important...not interfering with the other person... nothing you do can make someone love you and to try to do so is futile...time wasted... just suck up the pain..suffer through it and go on. I've done it, didn't like it, but I'm willing to do it again if that's what I have to do to know love again.
Amigo, contrary to popular belief, we men do have "feelings. Our hurt is no different than anyone else's hurt. "For me", I found the pain neccessary for spiritual growth the suffering was optional..

cheers
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Taking_chances
Pretoria, Pretoria North South Africa
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 9:56 PM CST
In response to:
To "let go" does not mean you stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off, it is the realization I can't control another.

To "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to be protective, it is to permit another to face reality.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less and love more.
Now I know too....

I needed this.

Thank you.
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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 10:01 PM CST
This is me letting go.....wave wave wave


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Scottishlass
Knoxville, Tennessee USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 10:49 PM CST
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Dknew
Warner, New Hampshire USA
Posted: Jan 10, 2008, 4:29 AM CST
sometimes letting go is the best thing that could happen to you.

















yay yay yay
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langleygirl
Langley, British Columbia Canada
Posted: Jun 9, 2008, 4:44 PM CST
HJFinAZ wrote:
To "let go" does not mean you stop caring, it means I can't do it for someone else.

To "let go" is not to cut myself off, it is the realization I can't control another.

TTo "let go" is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences.

To "let go" is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To "let go" is not to try to change or blame another, it's to make the most of myself.

To "let go" is not to care for, but to care about.

To "let go" is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To "let go" is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To "let go" is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To "let go" is not to be protective, it is to permit another to face reality.

To "let go" is not to deny, but to accept.

To "let go" is not to nag, scold or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To "let go" is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes, and cherish myself in it.

To "let go" is not to criticize and regulate anybody but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To "let go" is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To "let go" is to fear less and love more.


You've no idea how these words speak to my heart today ......... I'm having to let go in so many ways because otherwise my heart will be broken.
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arabella
Near Farmington, Maine USA
Posted: Jun 9, 2008, 4:49 PM CST
Time for me to let go too.

Not regretting the past but looking forward....

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