We need a matchmaker!

RillyNiceGuy
Warren, Arkansas USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:43 PM CST

If a person likes another and wants to know if the feelings are shared.

A person is often too shy or afraid of rejection and being a fool in front of their friends, to make the feelings known.

If a matchmaker was around. A person could send a flower to the matchmaker with the name of the adored one.

The matchmaker could then ask the adored one to list three in order of preference that the adored one would like to start a relation with.

If there is a match, let the person know their ranking in the three and that they are willing to get to know one another for the purpose of love and romance.

If the adored one does not have a match in the list, then let the person know or tell them there was not a willingness to make a reply for the sake of private feelings.

The matchmaker would have to be above all reproach and never letting one know the other. That is their choice after knowing.

What do you think about that!

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blue_eyed_blonde
Vinton, Iowa USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:44 PM CST

interesting idea...could be do-able...

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Hugz_n_Kissez
Someplace, Ontario Canada

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:45 PM CST

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If a person likes another and wants to know if the feelings are shared.

A person is often too shy or afraid of rejection and being a fool in front of their friends, to make the feelings known.

If a matchmaker was around. A person could send a flower to the matchmaker with the name of the adored one.

The matchmaker could then ask the adored one to list three in order of preference that the adored one would like to start a relation with.

If there is a match, let the person know their ranking in the three and that they are willing to get to know one another for the purpose of love and romance.

If the adored one does not have a match in the list, then let the person know or tell them there was not a willingness to make a reply for the sake of private feelings.

The matchmaker would have to be above all reproach and never letting one know the other. That is their choice after knowing.

What do you think about that!

Good idea for the shy people....

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carebear01
Mt. Dora, Florida USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:47 PM CST

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Good idea for the shy people....

Agree...

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RillyNiceGuy
Warren, Arkansas USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:47 PM CST

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interesting idea...could be do-able...

All would need to agree on methods and ways. I think some people would find it a help without risk.

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Midship
Limerick, Limerick Ireland

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:47 PM CST

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If a person likes another and wants to know if the feelings are shared.

A person is often too shy or afraid of rejection and being a fool in front of their friends, to make the feelings known.

If a matchmaker was around. A person could send a flower to the matchmaker with the name of the adored one.

The matchmaker could then ask the adored one to list three in order of preference that the adored one would like to start a relation with.

If there is a match, let the person know their ranking in the three and that they are willing to get to know one another for the purpose of love and romance.

If the adored one does not have a match in the list, then let the person know or tell them there was not a willingness to make a reply for the sake of private feelings.

The matchmaker would have to be above all reproach and never letting one know the other. That is their choice after knowing.

What do you think about that!

Top idea

Could create a whole other area for CS

Not that they do not provide a cool site now

All we need now is someone to take up the post

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Daniel4021
Somewhere, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:47 PM CST

I think it's a good idea for most people on CS... not all mind you... but most..

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Dknew
Warner, New Hampshire USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:48 PM CST

MMMMM

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RillyNiceGuy
Warren, Arkansas USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:50 PM CST

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Top idea

Could create a whole other area for CS

Not that they do not provide a cool site now

All we need now is someone to take up the post

If it was a site option of forums, it could make the site even more popular.

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curlywolf
quebec, Quebec Canada

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:53 PM CST

Could be done

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RillyNiceGuy
Warren, Arkansas USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:54 PM CST

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I think it's a good idea for most people on CS... not all mind you... but most..

Yup! It won't be something all would use. But opens many doors for those who would find it helpful.

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CuspofMagic
The White Crystal CityOfLight, South Australia Australia

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:55 PM CST

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If a person likes another and wants to know if the feelings are shared.

A person is often too shy or afraid of rejection and being a fool in front of their friends, to make the feelings known.

If a matchmaker was around. A person could send a flower to the matchmaker with the name of the adored one.

The matchmaker could then ask the adored one to list three in order of preference that the adored one would like to start a relation with.

If there is a match, let the person know their ranking in the three and that they are willing to get to know one another for the purpose of love and romance.

If the adored one does not have a match in the list, then let the person know or tell them there was not a willingness to make a reply for the sake of private feelings.

The matchmaker would have to be above all reproach and never letting one know the other. That is their choice after knowing.

What do you think about that!

fantastic idea

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Daniel4021
Somewhere, Tennessee USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:56 PM CST

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Yup! It won't be something all would use. But opens many doors for those who would find it helpful.

I agree with that statement

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rwantin
Costa Mesa, California USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:57 PM CST

I'm too shy, even for mediation.

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Dknew
Warner, New Hampshire USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:57 PM CST

Could be, I'm just at a loss as to tell her, I'd like to get to know her better

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RillyNiceGuy
Warren, Arkansas USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 5:59 PM CST

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I agree with that statement

I agree with that one. Fair is fair!

We will need to float this around a while so all can consider and then choose a willing matchmaker that would never misuse their trust of private knowledge.

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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:01 PM CST

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If a person likes another and wants to know if the feelings are shared.

A person is often too shy or afraid of rejection and being a fool in front of their friends, to make the feelings known.

If a matchmaker was around. A person could send a flower to the matchmaker with the name of the adored one.

The matchmaker could then ask the adored one to list three in order of preference that the adored one would like to start a relation with.

If there is a match, let the person know their ranking in the three and that they are willing to get to know one another for the purpose of love and romance.

If the adored one does not have a match in the list, then let the person know or tell them there was not a willingness to make a reply for the sake of private feelings.

The matchmaker would have to be above all reproach and never letting one know the other. That is their choice after knowing.

What do you think about that!

Are you volunteering??

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Solitarius
Salem, Indiana USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:01 PM CST

What if scenario....What if the Matchmaker was the one being asked about or doing the asking? I would no think it appropriate, because it could be an abuse of power.

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HJFinAZ
Sun (Sin) CIty, Arizona USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:02 PM CST

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I'm too shy, even for mediation.

What if it was binding arbitration??

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RillyNiceGuy
Warren, Arkansas USA

Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:02 PM CST

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Could be, I'm just at a loss as to tell her, I'd like to get to know her better

Perhaps the matchmaker can work with the person to form the words of introducton, after it is known that the adored one is interested also.

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