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First Dates and Kissing




TailSection
Camarillo, California USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:36 PM CST
What is an acceptable way to let a guy know it's okay to kiss you good-bye on your first date?

(This is assuming we're not going to whip the breath spray out of our purse and squirt him in the mouth mid-sentence. Something a little more subtle, perhaps.)
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thisissparta
Drogheda Ireland
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:37 PM CST
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What is an acceptable way to let a guy know it's okay to kiss you good-bye on your first date?

(This is assuming we're not going to whip the breath spray out of our purse and squirt him in the mouth mid-sentence. Something a little more subtle, perhaps.)
you grab him and kiss him!
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:38 PM CST
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you grab him and kiss him!
Mmmmmm not very subtle !!!! rolling on the floor laughing
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co_dad2
Chillicothe, Ohio USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:41 PM CST
Let him get close to you if he wants, and gotta read body language, if he's inches away from your face, he wants to kiss you, if he is off to the side or has his head down or looking around at everything but you, chances are pretty good that he's either too shy for his own good or he's not wanting to kiss you. If he's inches away and keeps kind of moving towards you or keeps looking at your in the face or your lips, yeah go for it.
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UnluckyGuyinpa
Harrisburg, Pennsylvania USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:42 PM CST


I for one would tend to agree. While most men are agressive in nature, it's only natural for a true gentleman to wait and see where he stands(if it's not completly obvious). What I mean by that is alot of times men are pretty bad a picking up on subtle hints, mind you not all men but quite a few. Sometimes as a woman you need to use a sledgehammer instead of rubber mallet. Just my thoughts.
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thisissparta
Drogheda Ireland
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:42 PM CST
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Mmmmmm not very subtle !!!!
it gets the point acrossprofessor
what year do we live in? whats wrong with the woman kissing the bloke?
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CuspofMagic
The White Crystal CityOfLight, South Australia Australia
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:48 PM CST
I think its the space between the face - the closer one gets on gets to guessblushing sigh
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CuspofMagic
The White Crystal CityOfLight, South Australia Australia
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:49 PM CST
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I think its the space between the face - the closer one gets on gets to guess
one gets to guess
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:54 PM CST
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it gets the point across
what year do we live in? whats wrong with the woman kissing the bloke?
Nothing at all, but a woman likes to feel desirable and special on a first date. not have to do the chasing.
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morganlee
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 6:54 PM CST
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I think its the space between the face - the closer one gets on gets to guess
thumbs up
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thisissparta
Drogheda Ireland
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 7:04 PM CST
my ignorance.
the whole dating thing isn't done much over hereD'oh!
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alabamabebe
Banks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 7:08 PM CST
I don't think it's an issue, who kisses who. If you feel like it, kiss him. Or if you feel like, let him kiss you. It should be spontaneous, not analyzed to death. kiss
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UnluckyGuyinpa
Harrisburg, Pennsylvania USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 7:09 PM CST

Granted a woman wants to feel special, however a gentleman doesn't want to offend. I guess it really is all about risk/reward and aceptance/rejection in a way. I'm just old fashioned and would think it somewhat forward to expect a kiss on the first date. I have recieved them before, both by my doing and hers but to me it was a pleasant surprise, not an expectation or anticipation.
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wendywindy
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 7:09 PM CST
The last date I went on, we had spent hours talking and he finally just looked at me and said, "Should we trying kissing?"

It was completely awkward, but at the same time so very, very funny. We tried it, I couldn't stop laughing. Then we tried it again. It was good...He made some comment about my bottom lip and well...

It was good.

So I suggest humor...if you can laugh, you can get right past that awkwardness.

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jbibiza
Ibiza, Islas Baleares Spain
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 7:25 PM CST
It's all in the eyes, you invite a man to kiss you with your eyes.smitten
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bajanblue
Speightstown, Saint Peter Barbados
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 7:36 PM CST
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What is an acceptable way to let a guy know it's okay to kiss you good-bye on your first date?

(This is assuming we're not going to whip the breath spray out of our purse and squirt him in the mouth mid-sentence. Something a little more subtle, perhaps.)
I once kissed a fingertip and touched his lips gently...worked really well as a hitn.laugh
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bajanblue
Speightstown, Saint Peter Barbados
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 7:37 PM CST
Hint..sigh
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girlnextdormouse
Marietta, Ohio USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 8:17 PM CST
Is it really that common to kiss on a first date?

I must be either really old fashioned or seriously disease paranoid.... confused

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UnluckyGuyinpa
Harrisburg, Pennsylvania USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 8:22 PM CST

I would tend to agree girl. I must be well out of touch with the "rules of engagement" whenit comes to dating. I would never expect a kiss on the forst date. It's happened as I said but it was a surprise, not a given.
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lover65
Vero Beach, Florida USA
Posted: Jan 9, 2008, 9:16 PM CST
are you guys serious? You have to give a goodnight kiss no matter what. It's usually a small kiss, absolutely no tounge unless she goes firstkiss
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